How can I get his attention and get him to DM me first?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy at a party back in September and he’s really cool. We flirted that night and recently I heard from a friend that he really wanted to “do stuff that night” and hang out with me and my friend again when I asked him but he couldn’t since he was really sick. He’s on my close friends on Instagram and he sees my stories but I want him to dm me. Is there anything I can do to get his attention?

[AddylynnNightingale]

By being super special awesome. That's all I can tell you.

The "DM me first" objective makes you getting that guy needlessly difficult.

[Wise4myage]

Come on, give the guy a break and just send him a dm. Say hi, and ask how he's doing.

[Avicenna]

Why don't you DM him?

[Asker]

I would like to, I've been kinda nervous cause i’ve dmed him twice, after the party and then again to ask him to hang out with my friend, and that’s when he was sick. I just don’t want to feel like i’m constantly messaging him or whatever. even though we had brief conversations, he would be the one usually liking my message and then the conversation would end there

[Summeroflove]

He can’t read your mind. Just DM him.

[sirderpsalot123]

Why does he have to DM you first?