Why do men develop interested in a Woman they were never attracted to in the past?

[Anonymous]

This guy I‘ve known Never paid me any attention but all of a sudden He can't stop Staring at me from afar.

We Are Not in contact and don’t have any mutual Friends so I don’t think He found something out about me that would Make me More interesting to him.

Is He just getting More desperate? He is handsome but quite Why around Women He Likes so maybe He Lacks experience?

[MrCommodore]

Its possible that you caught his attention recently somehow or something got him thinking about you, awoken attraction to you that was probably there already in a less noticeable level.

He probably isn't experienced, like he might not be forward enough to approach a girl he likes.

[Asker]

Is it likely that He realized that the Girls he wanted were out of his League so he settles for me?

[Asker]

Im asking Because I‘m afraid to be used as a placeholder

[MrCommodore]

No, I don't think it was that. I think he may have seen you one day and maybe noticed something he didn't before, and it just clicked.

[Äxlbäksölöl]

Maybe like a conversation happened between you two. Honestly speaking getting attracted to someone is pretty common and happens a lot, usually there is a reason but sometimes there isn't

[Asker]

There was no conversation at all in the last 3 years, that's why I'm wondering

[Guy13]

Apparently you have blossomed before him.

[Asker]

What do you mean by „blossomed“?

[Guy13]

He thinks you are hot now

[Asker]

I Gained Weight and he actually Likes very skinny Girls so I Doubt it

[Guy13]

Who knows then 🤷🏻‍♂️

[RavVid]

It can happen like that.

[Asker]

Do you think he considers me low hanging fruit?

[RavVid]

No. Let me give you my example. A girl I knew had spent a long time overseas. Before she left, she was too much a party girl for me, working the room etc. Possibly too good looking for me to think I would get traction. I never really got to know her - we were just acquaintances.

After she came back we met at a club and started city down together and talking. from that we started developing a friendship that went further. We were both bored with clubbing and hung out together etc.

I think being old acquaintances was a big part of it. You know about each other and at least we both knew neither of us were bad people. So there was a strong basis between us because of that acquaintanceship.

Could go similarly for you.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he might be desperate.

[Opinion Owner]

The same thing happened to my friend and I

[Asker]

How did you react?

[Opinion Owner]

Ignored them until they stopped. Well, my one still sends me fake photos of his fantasies of our future together and pops up where I am. It was clearly a mistake to say I was in love with him. But that’s an extreme example. Just ignore. If they offer to buy you something, say ‘No thanks.’

[HighlyQuestionable]

@BigBlue, Why did you go sour on this guy, if you said that you were in love with him?