How do you treat a guy who barely responds to you?

[Anonymous]

How should I treat a guy a guy who is playing hard to get but always gets attention from other people? . Do I be negative towards him? He barely responds. FYI this is a relationship of convenience.

[Guy13]

Why do you care? Is it not clear to you that he will treat you like a piece of trash. Surely, there are better men available. All guys want sex and he does not even seem to be interested in that possibility either. I do not understand the draw you have to him.

[Asker]

I forgot about him as he ignored me for 1 month. But he randomly messaged me. I didn’t see the message until the next day. I responded but no reply. Now because he contacted me I’m interested to see him.

[Guy13]

Oh well, I would resist that temptation as he is simply playing with you when bored or not getting laid. I am a guy. I know these things. Proceed at your own risk.

[serious]

Anyone who plays mind games like playing hard to get etc should be outright ignored. It would be waste of time trying to give attention to such people.

Gender does not matter here. Be it a man or a woman anyone who plays hard to get are not worth it.

[emmaa1]

guys don't play hard to get nor beat around the bush, they are direct, if it's just sex then it's just sex. If he doesn't respond, he's not interested. You don't talk.

[Asker]

The other night he asked me if I had energy. You didn’t respond coz I was sleeping. Then the next day I responded but no response.

[emmaa1]

because probably he had done it already. you don't waste your precious self and time on that

[Asker]

He didn’t contact me for a month. I totally forgot about him. Then out of the blue he contacts me. I was happy to forget about him. Guess I’ll just do the same thing but I have a feeling he will reach out.

[emmaa1]

he definitely would, again and again, as long as there is an option. he is not interested he's fucking around, maybe he missed doing that with you if you were close, but girl it'd be for the sake of just doing it.

I get you, but this isn't the type you even keep in mind. factor in more self-love xx

[Asker]

He definitely would contact me out of the blue again and again?

[emmaa1]

yess, but don't let him use you ever xx

[Vikkrram]

Ma'am tbh i would say that either he is getting a signal that you aren't interested in him or he is not interested in you

[Asker]

I haven’t given him any signals thag I’m not interested.

[Vikkrram]

So did u told him that you likes him?

[Asker]

I didn’t tell him that because we are just friends. Friends with benefits

[Vikkrram]

Then i would say he expects only this from you. Nothing much

[KrakenAttackin]

Guys don't play hard-to-get, that's female shit. He's not into you except maybe for sex.

[Asker]

Yes I know this. If he is interested in sex then why doesn’t he respond?

[KrakenAttackin]

He's working on something else.

[abbyjgriffin98]

I don't talk to him.