A coworker of mine female gave me a hug when my hands where in front of me full of stuff and her tiny breast pressed against my hands?

[Anonymous]

The hug lasted a good 3 to 5 seconds does that mean anything I told oh wait let me put these down to give her a hug and she said don’t worry about it and then wrapped both her arms around my neck and hugged me having her tiny breast press against my hands again what does that mean

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1 y

Update she told me today that her long term relationship isn't working out well and she asked me if am going on any more dates soon... does that mean anything?

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1 y

So update I bought my co worker a drink non alcoholic of course since we where at work and I put her initial on the cap so everyone knows it hers and a small heart just to be sweet and she thought it was nice and gave me a hug well she told me she'll have to hide it from her boyfriend because he'll get made if he sees the heart. What does that mean? Can anyone help

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1 y

So update same coworker has been complaining about things with her boyfriend also everytime I've asked her to hook me up with a pretty girl she knows she says she will but everytime I ask her she says she's been busy when I know her schedule cause she's told me and she's always on her phone easy to just text... does she want me to her self?

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11 mo

So update everything I’d ask her to hook me up with a girlfriend of hers she was hesitant and not too long ago she asked me if I was dating anyone well I just found out today she’s single also p. s we don’t work together anymore I left the company

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9 mo

So update really but I ended up having sex with my female co worker it happened when her and her ex spilt up and well they got back together we had sex everyday for a week and now she’s pregnant which am ok with but she hasn’t told her boyfriend yet

[Bethany22]

Was it the palms of your hands facing her breasts or the back of your hands? The backs of your hands are a bit less invasive than the palms of your hands. If your palms of your hands were against her breasts, then she was flirting with you. And if you could feel her nipples hard, that's another clear sign she likes you.

[FunkyMonkee]

How would it be the palms?

[Asker]

Back if my hands but her nipples did seem to get a bit erect after the hug

[Asker]

So update I bought my co worker a drink non alcoholic of course since we where at work and I put her initial on the cap so everyone knows it hers and a small heart just to be sweet and she thought it was nice and gave me a hug well she told me she'll have to hide it from her boyfriend because he'll get made if he sees the heart. What does that mean?

[RavVid]

Usually girls are fairly conscious of minimizing breast contact with guys. You'll notice that girls will stoop forward to minimize.

So I think she wanted you to feel her breasts against your hands. It could be she just felt like teasing you for fun. Or it could be she likes you and wants you to know it. From her point of view it has worked. She has got you thinking hasn't she?

[Asker]

True how should I act on it because she's in a long term relationship but she doesn't really talk about her man and she don't seem the happiest

[RavVid]

For myself I would not progress if she is in a relationship but then I have high moral standards and basically I don't want shit in my life and I would regard an affair as shit. A lot of people will find a new partner before ditching the old.

Also some girls collect men like stamp collectors. I worked by a call centre which was mostly women and they certainly liked collecting men who would meet them on their breaks. I think it was a female competition as to who had the biggest collection of men.

[Asker]

She just told me that her and her man aren't doing well and she also asked me if am going on any dates soon

[RavVid]

With your update she is clearly asking you to ask her out. I think you should make it conditional on her breaking up.

[Asker]

Ya she told me about the problems and before she did because she knows I've gone on a few dates she said as I walked up to her oh so you going on any other dates soon and then asked me if I did anything sexual with my last date I told her no because it is true but I also told her that am only gonna take a women out on a date if I already know the women. As she suggested if I go on a other date with a girl I don't know that I should just do coffee so I don't waste my time and money haha

[RavVid]

best way.

[Asker]

Best way? What do you mean?

[RavVid]

Oh I meant coffee as a low key initial date as you were saying. I do think she should be single before you do go on a date with her.

[Asker]

Oh got ya... ya when you said previously I should make it conditional on her break up how should I go about doing that

[RavVid]

I think you should say something like when you are single I'll take you out. The reason why I am saying that a lot of people wait till they find someone new before beaking up. I think that is morally wrong. The new guy (you) doesn't have clean hands and it is more traumatic to the ex that the partner was cheating. The new guy is sneaking around. and there could even be some violence in this situation.

The new guy is in an abnormal position as well. Normally you would go on a few dates with a single girl and maybe you hit it off and maybe you don't. With a partnered girl there is something of an implicit deal that you will replace the ex partner. Even though she seems a nice desirable girl there could be good reasons why her current relationship is not so good. You are in more deeply than you would be with a single girl.

Even with the line I suggested you are in a bit deeper than normal but you haven't promised anything more than a date.

[Asker]

so update she said if her ex doesn't want to be with her thats fine she should just tell him and she seemed to only stick around because she said that she's just pretty much sticking around until her boyfriend starts making a lot of money from his new business but i did say that i wish i had a strong women like you as my girl and she recognized it but didn't say anything,

[RavVid]

She has revealed part of her character that is not very desirable - watch out.

[RavVid]

So are you asking her out now you are at different companies. Seems the time to swoop in.

[Guy13]

I am going to beseech you not to project your interpretations upon the girl as her possible intentions. I get that though as I’ve done it and it only took one time, “you self-absorbed A-Hole, please.”

Go ahead and act in unfounded assumption as you probably will require your own party 🎉

[Avicenna]

A little more context would help. Did this occur in the workplace? Has she been handsy before?

[Asker]

She's always very affectionate and she's in a relationship

[Avicenna]

I’d keep it professional.

[Avicenna]

Regardless if what she does

[Asker]

She always gives me hugs and always is touchy and teases me

[Avicenna]

You don’t want to get fired. She‘ll get the message if you keep things professional

[Crankor]

May just be me but I always felt arms around the neck hug is a bit more expressive of showing their interest in you. Sounds like she Def appreciates you. She prob does like you a bit.

[TrillXHippy]

Alright

[In_Trance]

Means nothing

[Allday4]

Doesn’t mean a thing