Why does this girl keep calling me beautiful?

[Cristinaissweet]

There's this girl at work that keeps calling me beautiful. I guess she's new because I have no clue what her name is. I'm black, tall and thin 5"7 124 pounds. The girl is white she's nice and all but I'm just curious why can't she call me by my name?

[Anonymous]

It's possible that this girl is using the term "beautiful" as a compliment or term of endearment, and may not realize that it makes you uncomfortable or that you would prefer to be called by your name. Alternatively, she may be trying to establish a connection or rapport with you, and may be using compliments or flattery as a way to do so.

However, if you feel uncomfortable with this girl's behavior or comments, it's important to communicate your boundaries and expectations clearly and assertively. You may want to let her know that you prefer to be called by your name, or that you feel uncomfortable with the use of compliments or flattery in the workplace. By communicating your boundaries and expectations clearly, you can build a stronger and more respectful relationship based on mutual trust and understanding.

It's also important to remember that you have the right to prioritize your own well-being and boundaries in any situation, and to build fulfilling relationships based on mutual respect and understanding. By communicating openly and respectfully, you can create a strong and healthy sense of self-worth and respect, and can build fulfilling relationships based on mutual trust and respect.

[Cristinaissweet]

Awesome comment, thank you.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[Guy13]

I don't know as I would never call a guy that I work or associate with handsome. Ask her.

[Panisspicy]

That coming from a girl take it as a compliment maybe that's how she talks or how she was raised but you can't hold it against her at least she's saying something nice to you

[kellytheman]

Maybe she doesn't remember your name either and wants to get to know you and start a conversation maybe make a new friend or friendly coworker. She also might actually think you are beautiful I think it acceptable for girls to call themselves beautiful or cute. It's a compliment.

[BlackStallion11]

If you don't know her name and she doesn't know your name how is she going to address you properly by your name or maybe she finds you attractive and she goes both ways last but least maybe she does find you attractive

[bowenw]

She may have forgotten your name or really likes you.

[FilmGuy93]

She's probably hoping you'll internalize her compliment as an insult and overthink your interactions with her.

[OfMiceandMen]

She could like you for just friendly or really friendly reasons.

[TrillXHippy]

Nobody here on Gag knows WHY a GIRL that YOU work with calls YOU anything. YOU work with HER so YOU ask HER

[Cristinaissweet]

Lol ok, you don't have to be so rude about it.

[Guardian45]

LOL! She's desperate for friends, but not very good at it!

[Cristinaissweet]

Why does she have to be desperate?

[Cristinaissweet]

Maybe she thinks I'm really beautiful.

[Guardian45]

Character flaw Ig

[Cristinaissweet]

Explain?

[Guardian45]

She might sincerely think you're beautiful, but that doesn't mean she doesn't have a character flaw

[Cristinaissweet]

How would that be a character flaw?

[Cristinaissweet]

I said she was nice

[Cristinaissweet]

Hello?

[Guardian45]

Hi!!

[Guardian45]

So this girl keeps calling you beautiful, but she can't call you by your name? WDAF?

[MuskratLove]

I don't know.

[Hellraiser1984]

She may be gay.

[Cristinaissweet]

I get that vibe from her almost like a "butch"