Girls, so many cute girls in my office my age that I get along with. Is it a violation to ask one of them for drink after work for a casual date?

[sportchamp618]

[WanderingLoveWizard]

If dating girls at work is a "violation", then I would've been fired a long time ago

[Changiis07]

No why would it be a violation? lol it's hard not to like someone at work

[sportchamp618]

We have been vibing. How do I do it without being weird?

[Changiis07]

Just do it, like would you like to hang out sometime. Or hey want to grab some lunch on this day

[sportchamp618]

She would never do it I have to do it right?

[Changiis07]

She could but it shows more confidence if you do it

[sportchamp618]

If I do it in the office would it be seen as unprofessional?

[Changiis07]

I mean is there somewhere else you could do it? If not then it shouldn't matter as long as there is nothing weird if other women there are into you as well. You don't want to make things awkward either

[sportchamp618]

There are two girls I really like I will have to find out who would be more likely to say yes

[Changiis07]

Not even that, whos has better qualities. Maybe you should take some more time to decide first before making a move

[sportchamp618]

How about whoever I am more attracted to?

[Changiis07]

True but attraction fades. What about chemistry? How do they treat you and others but if it's just to hang out and not a serious relationship than it doesn't matter which one but if you are looking for a serious relationship than yes take your time

[sportchamp618]

Thanks