So, there is a guy from one of my classes who I like, and I am not sure if he likes me at all or is just friendly. He was in one of my other classes last semester, and we both sat in back, but we never talked, and he never approached me. This semester, he transferred to my lab section last month, and he suddenly started talking to be out of the blue, asking about the lab, and he did suggest to work together once, but I brushed him off, because I didn’t know that I liked him, at the time. He would wave to me when I walked in and smiled (only once or twice). The last time we were in the lecture together, he got up from the back seat and came to sit next to me, and asked me one of two questions, but he has never introduced himself or asked me for my name. Sometimes, I think he does look at me when I’m not looking, and, when I walk into lab, he will look up and smile, even when I’m not looking. A few weeks ago, when I did realize that I liked him, I got super awkward and stopped looking at him and didn’t look up when I went into lab, but he just kind of stopped talking to me unless I said something to him. He came back into the lab with a friend when I was there, but didn’t say anything to me or acknowledge me, so now I am a bit confused, as I am not sure if he was just friendly or if he did like me, but, because I was sort of ignoring him, he is now ignoring me?
Yh you kind of dug your own grave by ignoring him. Now he most likely thinks he has been annoying you and is trying to give you space. Only way out is apologize for your recent behavior and ask if you can start again. Ask him his name. Then follow up with a question Next time you come in be the one to greet him or just smile.
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They might have been friendly or had developed some feelings, its hard to tell. I suppose they stopped because you began to ignore them and perhaps they believe they themselves are annoying. Or maybe they were busy conversating with their friend, that they forgot to acknowledge you.
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He figured you weren't interested in him
I made this mistake, don't act like ur bot interested if u r😂
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Reach out to him
He's ignoring you because you got awkward
He probably lost interest and moved on.
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