How do u talk to guys without sounding like a pick-me girl?

[Anonymous]

[Effably]

The pick-me thing is more about putting others down to elevate yourself.

So the simple difference is that rather than making everything a comparison between you and other girls you make it about just you and possibly of course the guy.

Basically leave the comparison to others. If you are different from everyone else it'll be understood without pointing it out yourself.

[MementoMori777]

Lol "pick me girl", that's the first time I've heard that, I would assume you would have to stand out somehow that isn't direct and that's in a way that doesn't seem desperate or obsessed

[Nikki1989]

There is no such thing as a pick-me girl.

[Summeroflove]

Just talk like a normal person

[Anonymous]

There's no such thing as a "pick me" girl. That's just something bitter women like to say... There's nothing wrong with putting in effort and wanting to do something nice for a guy you like. Or just caring about men im general.

[007kingifrit]

there is no such thing as a pick me girl, its just something girls say to more attractive girls because they feel jealous

[Shamalien]

Yupp

[Wise4myage]

Be casual, express interests, just don't be desperate.

[Anonymous]

Screw it. Be a pick me if you want