How do guys talk to each other about girls?

[billiejean]

Guys how do you talk to each other about girls? What kinds of things do you talk about? In all seriousness besides just hooking up

[DamieWamie]

Its usually about girls we are dating and helping each other out with stupid girls. If a girl is sexy, we'll go as far as to say "id hit that three times" or something stupid. But guys are very much aware of the stigma that women have placed on us in terms of being pervs and wanting nothing but sex, so the majority of guys stay away from perverted comments and things of the sort even around our own bros. Now, we also have many girl "bros," and 9 times out of 10 they are worse than us. By FAR. I've engaged in so many dirty conversations with my girl friends that probably wouldn't even come up when talking to my guy friends. Just LAST WEEK, I went over one of my best friends apartment to simply swim in the community pool and she brought her best friend over. The girl was a sexual DEVIANT. She was sitting next to me when a song came on while we were inside eating pizza and she immediately says "This sounds like a song that would be playing during some overly gratuitous, passionate sex." After I cleared my windpipe of the pizza I had promptly choked on, I commenced to play along. She went into so much detail about what would be happening in the bedroom while certain parts of the song were playing, and we finally agree that it would be ideal to start the song halfway through foreplay and follow all the way through sex just before orgasm when it would be silent. See what I mean!? And she even came up with this ridiculous game where the rules were that anytime someone says something that can be followed by a "thats what she said," everyone in the vacinity was to clap twice and the last person to clap had to say a "special color" Her color was sex purple, mine was pink salmon (weird), and there were a host of other zany colors. If two people were the last to clap and clapped at once, they had to keep double-clapping until one beat the other. Then the person that lost had to sexualy moan the name of one person the group, and everyone would do a vote on who they would moan to.

Yeh. We're not as bad as you think.

[Waggaman]

It depends. I only discuss trivial stuff about girlfriends and never give any sexual or physical details details. On the occasion when I have discussed something sexual or physical, then it's always positive about her.

If it's a sex buddy, then I just talk about the sex and what a killer body she has. However I tended to keep my sex buddies on the hush hush a bit.

If it's a friend, then I really only discuss the same things I would discuss about a male friend.

If it's someone I want to be with, then I discuss strategies with my friends.

[Brando]

Depends on who the girl is and what she means to us. If it's a girl we see out somewhere, or if it's a girl that we have an attraction to, we might talk about how we like how she looks, what we'd do to her, etc...the typical "guy stuff" basically. If it's a girl we really like, we tell them about how cool she is, why we like hanging out with her, what we should do next (talk to her, ask her out, etc.). If it's a girl we hate, we just basically trash talk her and give all the reasons why she's a bitch.

[Anonymous]

It depends much on what the context is... and *where* the guys are talking. In a bar, you'd find the guys saying pretty atrocious things about random girls.

Though I don't drink, I've been around in bars sometimes and have been pretty shocked to hear what is being discussed. And how.

As for myself, I wouldn't discuss any sex-related matter about another woman with the guys. (When my partner isn't giving me the attention, I might drop a hint to make her jealous!) At best, I would look at another woman as I do of another man -- and talk about what I appreciate or don't in her qualities and values (I mean, as a person!)

[RFSCaveman]

(3 friends sitting in a food court)

guy 1: Dude I saw this totally hot chick today

guy 2: dude really?

guy 1: yeah dude she was totally checkin me out

guy 2: nice man (brofists), how big were her t*ts?

guy 1: huge

guy 2: dude you should totally hit that

guy 1: I'm gunna destroy that sh*t lol

girl 1: you guys are such idiots hehe

[Shaun]

We don't. We're not like women where we compare d*** sizes (how tight) or how good in bed they are. We have respect for our girlfriend's and our privacy. Guys will talk about some random skank they banged, 'I did this to her, she did this to me', however.

[Samoht_D319]

marriage, long walks on the beach and diamond earrings.

haha. no no

umm, not really much. it really just kinda depends. for example if we're in a fight we may talk about our friends about it and how to fix it etc..but otherwise its just about sex, and whos hotter, basically

[thisGUYknows]

we don't share unless...

A) girlfriend's bitchin (keep it short though)

B) we had a one night stand recently

we may say "how's so and so?" (meaning a girlfriend) but one sentence is enough. after that all interest is lost

so basically its nowhere near what you talk about with your girlfriends

[DonMichelle]

If the girl's your girlfriend then the things you get upto, activities you do, things she likes, I'd talk about her like I'd talk about a friend... because she is my friend, I wouldn't discuss sex too much

If she was a girl I just had sex wiyh... she'd be discussed in a purely sexual nature, nothing more :)

[aikidy]

we sit Down , and Rate Girls for each one who passes we give a number 1 to 10

if we Don't agree for the Rating we Discuss the reason for giving such a low or too high number.

or we gossip some girls for being to crazy , too beautiful , too snob , or too ugly...

[sam240]

the more the guy cares about the girl the less he'll talk about her in front of other guys

[thisGUYknows]

bingo

[drummerdude25]

True, but not always... If he talks about a girl he cares for, he will never say anything that could be taken disrespectfully about her.

[AdsToll]

Spot on, unless it's for advice because you have done something.

[Anonymous]

When I was 19, I cleaned vents over the summer in many city buildings. I learned a few things quickly. Many people speak to themselves when nobody else is around. The second was women in their 20s and 30s talk shop a lot nastier and in much more vivid detail than men, usually about exactly how long the guy could go for, exactly how long and thick his **** was and so forth.

I was surprised by how many sluts and two-faced people there are out there.

[Distant]

Most guys will compare their taste in girls by asking each other their opinions of girls that they all know. Asking which type of personality they prefer and so on. Sometimes, they'll share sexual stories about girls they've been with.

~Distant

[confusedguyuk]

The better the relationship and the better I know a girl, the less inclined I am to divulge any info to my buddies. But when I first meet someone, I talk about them all the time & talk about pretty much everything that's happened. Though I probably wouldn't go into toooo much detail - nobody wants TMI. :)

[hALLDAY]

We don't usually talk about it all that often, or in detail. Its usually just a side step around the question so we can get back to sports or whatever the conversation was before.

[Anonymous]

We say good, bad, and ugly things about girls. I agree with the other answer that said the more we care the less we talk about you. Guys don't talk about bedroom details at all really, they might hint they had sex or say it but no details.

[Jager66]

we normally talk about their hotness, t*ts, ass, etc.. we also like to warn each other about the crazy's, and ladys there are ALLOT of crazy's!

[Anonymous]

If I love her so much I never talk about her with my friends till we had a problem and I need an advice

[Anonymous]

hope you don't mind @billiejean but I have a side question I would like to as.

Guys that answered this. why the "more you like the girl the less you talk about her (to other guys"?

[john5246]

nah not necessarily.

[ThatGuy44]

Pretty much the same thing girls talk about.

[AdamThomas]

I never talk about girls I'm seeing/sleeping with.

[carmelo]

i never talk about girls,really