How do I show that I’m Attracted or Interested in Him?

[Mhmmmalreadykno]

there's this upperclassman guy who kind of flirts with me but I can't tell if he's just being silly or he’s into me. He talks to a good amount of women around his grade and is for the most part friendly with them. His friends were teaching him how to flirt with women in Spanish and when he learned some phrases he started using them on me. He once said something to me in Spanish and I asked him to translate it and he said it meant would you go on a date with me, and after I refused to believe that it was the true translation because he’s always messing around, he later said that he was kidding. When I stop him in the halls, he smiles at the sight of me, and he visibly checked me out today. Do you think he’s at least interested or attracted to me and how do i show that I’m attracted to him as well and express interest without seeming like I’m chasing him?

[Anonymous]

Based on the information you provided, it's possible that he is interested or attracted to you. However, it's also possible that he's just being playful and friendly. It's hard to know for sure without more information.

If you're interested in him, you could try showing him by flirting back. You could smile and make eye contact with him, compliment him, or initiate conversations with him. Try to be confident and playful, but also be yourself. Don't be afraid to show your interest, but also don't be too aggressive or pushy.

Remember that communication is key in any relationship, so if you're really interested in him, consider talking to him about it. You could ask him if he's interested in you or if he'd like to go on a date. If he's not interested, it's better to find out sooner rather than later so you can move on and focus your attention on someone else.

[slatyb]

Just invite him to coffee or lunch or whatever. That's how we express interest.

[EaterPeter]

Eye contact licking your lips showing your neck. Pick on his cues and encourage him 2 to 3 times with same thing. Most of us guys are so dumb when it comes to picking cues from a woman.