How do I signal to a guy that I'm interested in him?

[Tiffany_VG]

like body language and flirting🥰

[RavVid]

Paying more attention to him than anyone else works. For myself, I like to technically be the one that does the asking out. Steer the conversation towards interests - cafes, movies etc and show interest in what he is interested in and it is quite natural to say 'I'd love to go x/do y'.

I know lots of people will say to ask him out but as I said I like to be doing the asking out.

[Guy13]

Try 👋, name, and one question about him…like his interests…something you’ve noticed.

[Guy13]

If that does not work then he is very immature

[Tiffany_VG]

we already know eachother somewhat, but only in a professional way, what are some subtle ways I can let him know I want him to ask me out without directly asking him 😂

[Guy13]

Find something in town or some place you have not been…preferably he has not been either. Know his hobby? Find something related that is free…talk about it…I would like to go but I do not enjoying going out by myself…cloaked in woman code.
—We are not on your train of thought especially non-verbals. Verbals are hard enough‼️‼️
—check out what’s up for month.
—Don’t like cars, sports, reptiles, or gun shows.-HE will invite you to those🙃🥳
—Food festival Greek, redneck, Turk
—Just went airplane show in my area. That’s a middle ground thing…first class and turbines 💪

[RavVid]

Yeah. More than one girl has made it ungentlemanly not to invite her to go with me!
"none of my girlfriends want to go/do" translates to 1. she is single 2. she doesn't to go/do by herself 3. she needs a man t go/do.

[markml]

It really depends on the situation you're in.

In the old days, the surefire way would be to give the guy your phone number. I believe this still works, although it's a bit old fashioned since people don't rarely make calls these days.

Flirting by itself does not work particularly well. Because most of the time, flirting says more about a girl's personality than if she is interested in you. Like some girls flirt with almost every guy they meet, because that's just their nature and it doesn't mean anything. And other girls just don't really flirt, because it's not their personality to be really flirty.

If the guy doesn't really know you, he has no way of knowing if you flirt with everyone you meet or not. This doesn't mean flirting is worthless. If you flirt in the right way, it can make a better impression since it lightens the mood. But as a general rule of thumb, if flirting doesn't come natural to you, then you only want to push yourself out of your comfort zone a little bit. You don't want to completely change your personality.

Other than that, it really depends what stage you are with the guy. If you haven't broken the ice yet, start with greeting him whenever you see him. Greet him by name too, since remembering his name means you're paying attention to him.

Then, once you're in the habit of greeting him, start dropping random compliments. You don't need to over think this. Just say, "Hey ___, I like your _____." Fill in the blank with whatever. Some compliments may be more appreciated than others, but usually any compliment is good enough for this purpose.

If that hasn't broken the ice, then you take this to stage 3 where you follow-up the compliment with a question. But the key is to pick a good question that requires a longer answer. Questions like, "How is it going?" and "How are you?" are not good questions, because people get used to replying in perfunctory ways, like "Fine". Questions about things that he might like -- sports, music, television, games, etc. are good questions. And sometimes, that might follow naturally after the compliment. Like if you compliment a t-shirt that has a band on it, that could naturally lead to a question about what his favorites songs of that band are, or if he's ever seen them in-person. Of course, you can also ask a question about something more boring like a homework problem, if you can't think of anything else.

Finally, if the ice is already broken, and you've kind of fallen into a friend zone then that's the trickiest place to be. At that point, you might just jump to asking him out. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, and want to encourage him to ask you out, then the way to drop hints is to talk about things you like that would just so happen to make good date ideas. Like tell him about a restaurant you haven't been to that you're curious about, or a movie you're looking forward to.

[hoqhuuep]

Make eye contact a bit longer than usual and smile. Make an effort to be around him.

Dunno if you noticed, but those girls other girls tend to dislike, who sleep around and are considered "easy", they're usually very good at flirting. Maybe observe what they do.

[TwiNshichamp1]

Yes those girls know how to flirt lol

[Anonymous]

You're probably doing it already, or will naturally. Smiling, laughing, touching, wanting to be around him etc. But even then depending on the guy, it may not be enough (ie he might still always question it unless you were to directly tell him or make it known). Women like to be subtle, but often you're too subtle, so the more direct you are about it, the better.

[1GoldTwins]

What worked for me was giving him my undivided attention And whenever I did I would be close to him. Interacting with him often and asking him to do things together. But we are talking signals!

The best "signal" is asking him out.

[Reaper1985]

most guys responded better to a girl who's being direct with him while keeping the conversation short and on topic. since there not always likely to pick up on vague hints in her body language.

[Dormiensmortem]

Eye contact and a smile is just being polite. Biting your lips only works in movies and porn, and it's awkward as hell, so don't do that. Don't try to signal, just go to him and ask him on a date.

[spartan55]

He won't get any of that signaling or hinting nonsense. You will have to tell him.

[TheLoneTerran]

Walk up to him and let him know you're interested in him. Why play games with signals and hints that can be misconstrued or misunderstood and backfire? Just use clear cut communication and ask.

[lawhawk]

Smile, eye contact, go out of your way to be near them or talk to them. Light touches on a hand or shoulder. Or if you feel comfortable, hold his hand.

[FilmGuy93]

Give him a smile and comment that you would enjoy doing activities together.

[DonkeyDan]

Wear a shirt skirt and no underwear, drop something in front of him and bend over to pick it up, he'll get the message 🤣

[TheFlak38]

As him for help about anything to trigger his white knight instinct.

[sharrinfoxx]

Look directly at him maybe touch him casually give him a knowing smile

[driven159]

How about just telling him you will gain his respect instantly

[Roger56]

By giving your cute smile and next giving your cleavage

[Tiffany_VG]

yea... no

[EdwinLivingston_]

Bite lips and smile.
Wink.
Blush.
Hug.
Long good bye hug.

[BarryLiverstone]

Are you able to hang out with him after work?

[Tiffany_VG]

not really, he always leaves immediately after work

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s a good place to start. You could suggest on a Friday that he and you get a drink after work. If that’s too direct then suggest a group goes out and include him in the group

[BCRanger10]

Simple. Just ask him out.

[SeekingVirginWife]

Ask him for marriage. Problem solved.

[Tiffany_VG]

lmao

[Zolly99999]

Look him in the eyes and give him a flirt smile.

[In_Trance]

Be bold. Guys are dumb

[Anonymous]

Try being touchy/feely and joking around.

[lickysplit]

smile, eye contact

[Anonymous]

"Hey, I like to you"

[Jouth]

hit him in the face

[TwiNshichamp1]

😂😂😂😂 lol

[TwiNshichamp1]

He will just get it won't he? 😂😂😂