Paying more attention to him than anyone else works. For myself, I like to technically be the one that does the asking out. Steer the conversation towards interests - cafes, movies etc and show interest in what he is interested in and it is quite natural to say 'I'd love to go x/do y'.
I know lots of people will say to ask him out but as I said I like to be doing the asking out.10 Reply
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1K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Try 👋, name, and one question about him…like his interests…something you’ve noticed.
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we already know eachother somewhat, but only in a professional way, what are some subtle ways I can let him know I want him to ask me out without directly asking him 😂
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Find something in town or some place you have not been…preferably he has not been either. Know his hobby? Find something related that is free…talk about it…I would like to go but I do not enjoying going out by myself…cloaked in woman code.
—We are not on your train of thought especially non-verbals. Verbals are hard enough‼️‼️
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—Don’t like cars, sports, reptiles, or gun shows.-HE will invite you to those🙃🥳
—Food festival Greek, redneck, Turk
—Just went airplane show in my area. That’s a middle ground thing…first class and turbines 💪
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331 opinions shared on Flirting topic. It really depends on the situation you're in.
In the old days, the surefire way would be to give the guy your phone number. I believe this still works, although it's a bit old fashioned since people don't rarely make calls these days.
Flirting by itself does not work particularly well. Because most of the time, flirting says more about a girl's personality than if she is interested in you. Like some girls flirt with almost every guy they meet, because that's just their nature and it doesn't mean anything. And other girls just don't really flirt, because it's not their personality to be really flirty.
If the guy doesn't really know you, he has no way of knowing if you flirt with everyone you meet or not. This doesn't mean flirting is worthless. If you flirt in the right way, it can make a better impression since it lightens the mood. But as a general rule of thumb, if flirting doesn't come natural to you, then you only want to push yourself out of your comfort zone a little bit. You don't want to completely change your personality.
Other than that, it really depends what stage you are with the guy. If you haven't broken the ice yet, start with greeting him whenever you see him. Greet him by name too, since remembering his name means you're paying attention to him.
Then, once you're in the habit of greeting him, start dropping random compliments. You don't need to over think this. Just say, "Hey ___, I like your _____." Fill in the blank with whatever. Some compliments may be more appreciated than others, but usually any compliment is good enough for this purpose.
If that hasn't broken the ice, then you take this to stage 3 where you follow-up the compliment with a question. But the key is to pick a good question that requires a longer answer. Questions like, "How is it going?" and "How are you?" are not good questions, because people get used to replying in perfunctory ways, like "Fine". Questions about things that he might like -- sports, music, television, games, etc. are good questions. And sometimes, that might follow naturally after the compliment. Like if you compliment a t-shirt that has a band on it, that could naturally lead to a question about what his favorites songs of that band are, or if he's ever seen them in-person. Of course, you can also ask a question about something more boring like a homework problem, if you can't think of anything else.
Finally, if the ice is already broken, and you've kind of fallen into a friend zone then that's the trickiest place to be. At that point, you might just jump to asking him out. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, and want to encourage him to ask you out, then the way to drop hints is to talk about things you like that would just so happen to make good date ideas. Like tell him about a restaurant you haven't been to that you're curious about, or a movie you're looking forward to.00 ReplyMake eye contact a bit longer than usual and smile. Make an effort to be around him.
Dunno if you noticed, but those girls other girls tend to dislike, who sleep around and are considered "easy", they're usually very good at flirting. Maybe observe what they do.21 Reply- +1 y
Yes those girls know how to flirt lol
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYou're probably doing it already, or will naturally. Smiling, laughing, touching, wanting to be around him etc. But even then depending on the guy, it may not be enough (ie he might still always question it unless you were to directly tell him or make it known). Women like to be subtle, but often you're too subtle, so the more direct you are about it, the better.
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+1 yWhat worked for me was giving him my undivided attention And whenever I did I would be close to him. Interacting with him often and asking him to do things together. But we are talking signals!
The best "signal" is asking him out.10 Reply
+1 ymost guys responded better to a girl who's being direct with him while keeping the conversation short and on topic. since there not always likely to pick up on vague hints in her body language.
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+1 yEye contact and a smile is just being polite. Biting your lips only works in movies and porn, and it's awkward as hell, so don't do that. Don't try to signal, just go to him and ask him on a date.
10 Reply559 opinions shared on Flirting topic. He won't get any of that signaling or hinting nonsense. You will have to tell him.
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+1 yWalk up to him and let him know you're interested in him. Why play games with signals and hints that can be misconstrued or misunderstood and backfire? Just use clear cut communication and ask.
00 ReplySmile, eye contact, go out of your way to be near them or talk to them. Light touches on a hand or shoulder. Or if you feel comfortable, hold his hand.
10 ReplyGive him a smile and comment that you would enjoy doing activities together.
10 ReplyWear a shirt skirt and no underwear, drop something in front of him and bend over to pick it up, he'll get the message 🤣
00 ReplyAs him for help about anything to trigger his white knight instinct.
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+1 yLook directly at him maybe touch him casually give him a knowing smile
10 ReplyHow about just telling him you will gain his respect instantly
10 ReplyBy giving your cute smile and next giving your cleavage
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yea... no
+1 yBite lips and smile.
Wink.
Blush.
Hug.
Long good bye hug.00 Reply
+1 yAre you able to hang out with him after work?
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not really, he always leaves immediately after work
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That’s a good place to start. You could suggest on a Friday that he and you get a drink after work. If that’s too direct then suggest a group goes out and include him in the group
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u +1 ySimple. Just ask him out.
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+1 yAsk him for marriage. Problem solved.
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lmao
+1 yLook him in the eyes and give him a flirt smile.
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Be bold. Guys are dumb
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yTry being touchy/feely and joking around.
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+1 ysmile, eye contact
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 y"Hey, I like to you"
10 Replyhit him in the face
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😂😂😂😂 lol
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He will just get it won't he? 😂😂😂
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