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How long and often should you hold and make eye contact?

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  • D_Bone_Steak
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    Just stare until they agree to some sexy time.

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  • shades777
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    try 20 seconds and see if you became smarter

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    • DenizLikesTennis
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      Not gonna lie but I actually want to experiment that unlimited. I will try to focus on her eyes, also while eating and drinking, calling the waitress.

      That might be fun

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    • shades777
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      swear to god...

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    • shades777
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      sounds like typical viral youtube video, do it as the hot dude, ugly dude, ruch dude, poor dude to see how long wach group can stare before getting kicked out

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  • Agirlinneedhelp
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    Xper 5 Age: 28 , mho 70%
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    If it's in casual sittings like a cafe or a restaurant, I don't maintain it more than a couple of seconds. I also try to make it look accidental, as if I were just checking something or fixing my seat maybe then get a quick glance of a handsome stranger.

    But if it's in a place that's obviously made for socializing and people can come up to you to introduce themselves, I'd keep it for a while.

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  • KrakenAttackin
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    334 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

    The "Netflix corporate" rule is to NOT hold eye contact or look at any person for any longer than five seconds , or it is a violation of HR policy. Many companies are incorporating this rule as well.

    So,. if she finds you unattractive and you look at her for six seconds, she has a "valid" complaint that can get you fired. It's best to avoid women in the workplace and only communicate via email, and then only as briefly and concisely as possible.

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  • provokeesmokee
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    Yoda Age: 36 , mho 61%
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    Don't you know the unspoken rule?

    If you meet eyes with someone, it's an instant staring contest. Hold eye contact until they look away, establish dominance.

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    • KingslayerC
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      You left out how, if you're a man, you have to start mouth breathing heavily and loudly, and try to bug your eyes out as much as possible. Chicks love it.

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  • molonski2
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    Try to at least double that , it depends on the circumstance..

    Then just say something along the lines of " OMG , sorry , time just stood still " , it works like an absolute ripper.

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  • Smashingdoozy
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    Stare them down. Daddy didn't raise no quitter 😤👀

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  • Rangers
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    437 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

    I don't make eye contact with people, it's my way of nicely telling them to fuck off, if that doesn't work, I'll say it out loud to them

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  • sheikalana
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    Never. That's creepy and rude.

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  • Nikki1989
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    1.9K opinions shared on Flirting topic.

    It is rude to stare.

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