Why do guys like saying good girl?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Men enjoy the role of the provider for women, and thus like to see us in a submissive role, as the idea of us women being dependent on them makes them feel masculine. When he says "good girl", it is a way of expressing his approval, as if he is trying to pat you on the head and telling you you're doing a great job. This gives you a rush of oxytocin and dopamine and creates a strong bond between you and your partner, promoting the growth of the relationship.

[Anonymous]

I asked this too! I dont like when men say I'm a good girl... feels like im 8😒

How often do women call men "good boy"?😂 i've never heard that

[Asker]

RIGHT lolll

[Opinion Owner]

👀😆

[jahaims]

It's a dom/sub thing, not an age thing in most cases

[Opinion Owner]

@jahaims okay that makes more sense for me at least

[slatyb]

They are asserting dominance. It's creepy unless their partner is into that sort of role play. If you aren't, then make that clear the first time it happens.

[MementoMori777]

cause there's a lot of good girls out there that should know they are good

[Asker]

thought it was something submissive and dominant related

[Asker]

but yeah

[MementoMori777]

oh you are talking about the sexual version? fetishes maybe

[Asker]

im talking about if he says it in general or during sex it’s both a bit odd lol

[MementoMori777]

well i guess cause maybe he says it weird, like in a pervy way, if they said it like a "good girl 😌👍" would it still be weird? 😂

[Iron_Man]

We always say that we even say it to our pets

[riverrat3]

They may know the girl likes to hear it

[DomeVélez]

I’ve been confused about that