How do you play a guy? Like how do you keep him interested and curious?

[CAPLOVE]

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Also I'm curious if a guy has over 1,000 followers on insta is that a bad sign like is he a player?

[ohsheeT]

First of all throw the word play out the window you have to be honest you have to be yourself you have to be happy you have to know how to smile and you have to be real that's what keeps a guy interested

[Mansearching]

Be yourself. Don't play games. He might be the guy you're supposed to be with and you'll be playing games. According to your profile you're still young. But you're old enough not to play games. Time to grow up. Not saying to settle down yet. Just don't play games.

[CAPLOVE]

ok, I get you. I. just don't know how to keep him interested. Like he is my dream guy and I don't want to lose him

[CAPLOVE]

Also is it ok for me to ask him out first?

[Mansearching]

Of course its ok to ask him out first. I've never seen written rules against it. Before you say he's your dream guy (seen it before) find out more about him. Date him for awhile. You might find out what you don't want to know. Then your idea will totally change. (Again, seen it before)

[CAPLOVE]

Yep, has happened to me so many times. the one that is addicted to steroids, the one who was emotionally and verbally abusive, the one that lied, the one that cheated on me with my fried, the one that was my ex's best friend and blamed them for stoping talking to me, the one that sent dick pics, the one that wanted to fuck me. This guy different thought he cared about me and was nice. I mean I am trying to be distent. I'll keep you updated on how it goes

[Mansearching]

Distent is one thing. But respond in a good amount of time. But keep in mind being nice (in the beginning) is always a little tricky. It can change in an instant.
Be careful.

[CAPLOVE]

ok, I will. no that's it's latter he's taking longer to respond. Do you think I did something of is it just like he's getting ready for bed? Yeah IK IK

[Mansearching]

Depends on what time it is. I'm heading off now. Its after 10 here. Need to get up early for work.

[Mansearching]

You sound decent. Good head on shoulders. Young but cool. Follow and dm if want. Anytime for advice.

[CAPLOVE]

thanks, will do

[Summeroflove]

You don’t play anyone. If you like someone go on a date with him if he agrees and go as long as it goes. You can’t force someone to like you though.

[CAPLOVE]

yeah, that makes sence.

[HawkPerception]

"Playing the game" is something that most people grow out of. It's an immature phase that does not establish strong relationships.

Just communicate honestly and openly. Once you learn to do that, you'll have successful relationships.

[BourbonAndBacon]

If you play stupid games you'll win stupid prizes.

Just be yourself. Don't tell too much about yourself all at once and he'll be curious and interested. Less history is more mystery

[ChicoFromThe305]

Play him? This sounds like something that will lead to complications, kinda like a duck around and find out type of situation

[CAPLOVE]

ok, makes sense

[DryGermanGuy]

By not "playing" him at all. Leave that shit to early evening TV soaps.

[CAPLOVE]

Hahaha, I just want to keep him instrested

[Billlewis]

Just keep teasing him, and don't let him have intercourse with you. That never fails.

[CAPLOVE]

I won't. Tease him in what way? can you give me some examples?

[Anonymous]

Hopefully, when you grow up, you will realize that guys are not toys with which you play silly little girl games.

[Iron_Man]

You’re too young to play games like that focus on high school

[CAPLOVE]

Awww thanks. That's literally exactly what my mom said about focusing on school. i just want a boyfriend though lol

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome. I know but you’ll be 18 soon enough and then you can date

[CAPLOVE]

ok, thanks

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome

[SunnyRS]

Be confident and show some interest in them don't be completely cold towards them.

[OddBeMe]

Less is more.

How long does it take to see the shark in Jaws?

[KatherineJ]

Just be yourself, don’t “play” a guy.

[CAPLOVE]

ok, thanks

[CAPLOVE]

I just feel like everyone in my generation is playing this game and I don't know how to play it. Like I'm so confused w/ the social media stuff and like what it means If someone likes an old photo etc.

[KatherineJ]

@CAPLOVE your guess is as good as mine. I just think that thinking of it as a game is only going to lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings.

[CAPLOVE]

ok, Yeah i get that

[CAPLOVE]

hahaha, I hate guessing I wish it was just obvious or there was like a book lol