I hooked up with this guy. does he sound intetested?

[Anonymous]

So I had a one night stand at my best friends wedding with her husbands friend. I had met him one other time. I kind of rushed out in the morning and thought maybe could’ve thought I didn’t wanna be around him. We had each others numbers and a week passed so I sent him a text saying : hey its __ from the wedding. I didn’t get the chance to say sorry for rushing out the other morning. I just wasn’t feeling well at all. But I had a good time and he replied and said “hey! Oh it’s okay. Was struggling hard myself haha. Was meaning to text you too, but it was a crazy week. Now I’m in Italy through next weekend! 😂”

I replied back “glad feeling is mutual. Italy is my favorite place I’ve traveled too hope you have fun! “

Never heard back granted he’s still there. Do you think it’s a pity reply or he was rlly planning on texting me.

I’m
Hoping when he’s back in town he’ll ask me to get together. My best friend was saying “we need you to marry him” lol so I don't know if he’s said anything to them or not.

[wafflesaregreat]

From my Pov he does not sound interested if he was, he would have texted again. but you still have not heard from him.

[Luckycharms12]

No he got it all

[Asker]

There’s never exceptions to this rule?

[Luckycharms12]

Might come back if sex is good but just for fun nothing more

[Asker]

It really puzzles me. On one hand, people say that good sex alone isn't enough to make a guy stay in a relationship if there isn't a strong emotional connection. But then, when you have sex early on, it seems like some guys don't even bother to get to know you or care about building an emotional connection. It's such a contradiction, don't you think?

[Luckycharms12]

No you give guy sex early and come across easy.

[Asker]

Perspective is reality but it’s also assuming. Funny thing is that I haven’t had sex with anyone except a boyfriend in the past 7 years except this guy. If only guys knew that.

[Luckycharms12]

Doesn't matter to him you gave it up easy so he thinks you are easy

[Asker]

I think he’s easy!

[Luckycharms12]

Well you are asking about him on here and not the other way around. And ya. It's not hard to get into any guys pants

[Asker]

Cute how they get a pass. Like doesn’t matter if they’re a hoe or not

[Luckycharms12]

So do girls

[Asker]

Girls do not get a pass according to you

[Luckycharms12]

They do but different rules for guys and girls

[Asker]

Sex should not be characterized by a significant power dynamic, particularly if we believe in the equality of men and women. Although I do not personally identify as a feminist, I strongly feel that men and women should be treated as equals on a fundamental and ethical level.

[Asker]

Sex is a basic human need, not just a male need. So why should there be a power dynamic?

[Luckycharms12]

Men and women can't be equal because we are not the same