Is this guy trying to let me off easy or do you think he sounds genuine?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tough one. On one hand, he does seem genuinely sorry about how he treated you and that he knows he can't give you what you need right now. That part sounds real. But saying he "enjoys hanging out" and will maybe be ready someday in the future also kinda sounds like he's leaving the door open a tiny bit, you know? Like maybe he's not fully ready to let go. If I was you, I'd tell him you appreciate the apology but that you need a clean break for now to move on. Let him know you might be open to talking again down the road if he's really changed, but for your sake you need to fully move on from this. Don't let him string you along if he's still not 1000% committed. That's just gonna hurt more. But it does seem like his heart is in the right place at least. Tough call man, but you gotta do what's best for you here.

[bededazzle]

he could be genuine. maybe going through some stuff. unfortunately, with this sort of thing, you’ll just never really know for sure. but at the end of the day, i don’t think it makes much of a difference.

[exitseven]

You need to put your boots on and start shovelling. This guy should write for the NY Times. What a bunch of BS.

[Asker]

Yeah that's literally what I was thinking I dont understand why hed even take the time to write all this bs out.

[AndrewAzul]

He has confidence issues

[ThrillSeeker01]

Genuine. He can't handle a commitment right now