I can say im a 6/10 . Sometimes I don't approach girls because I think they will get annoyed/offenended. Do you get annoyed when dudes approach you?

[Randomguy1998]

Any advice? I think the girl getting offended is too much but sometimes I don't want to make her uncomfortable. And im really bad at reading signs and body language.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

It's worth practicing a bit to learn reading body language. That was one of the ultimate skills I capitalized on when I was single since it can allow you to take subtle hints and know what is and isn't going to be received well.

I was far from a hunk but one of the most useful skills I learned was how to get rejected by women while they're smiling and laughing. The more I got the hang of that, the less I got rejected as well and the remaining rejections I got were still very friendly and not at all bad. Most importantly, I didn't offend them or make them feel awkward even when they rejected me which was important to me (in terms of morality and courtesy).

Another thing that helped me is to stop cold approaching. I'm 5'7 and a goofball. It's not going to work for me to exchange glances with a woman and make a beeline to her and try to charm her pants off. I could never be that smooth.

So I developed a different style suited to my body and natural character. Instead of beelining my way to women, I just went to the center of the dance floor and danced and talked to everybody, men and women. That worked really well and sometimes I'd get in a conversation that way with a very attractive woman and then I'd invite her to hang out. Also when women see you chatting with everyone, men and women alike, I think they perceive you as less of a threat.

I don't know if that style is well-suited for you but it might be easier. Just start chatting up everyone around you and have a lot of fun with it.

[Anonymous]

Depends how the guy is when approaching and how much he won't listen to no!

Go for it you always loser if you never try!

Just except nos as you did good trying! Unless you really sucked then have a female friend help you approach.

[laly520]

I mostly get creeped out
they r too bad with it

[Randomguy1998]

The question what make us bad?

[laly520]

the point that lot of guys doesn't know how to approach a girl without being a creep

[Randomguy1998]

Women thinking like you make me not want to approach women.

[laly520]

if u were a woman u would understand how it feels when a stranger approaches from nowhere n start saying weird shit plus he would be double ur size
I hope its clear now buddy

[Randomguy1998]

But also if u were never approached you would feel not attractive,, so.

[laly520]

I dont need others validation to feel attractive n especially not from a stranger who would appear outta blue

[californianjoe]

be charismatic

[Randomguy1998]

Easy to say if you are good looking. It isn't magic. Im just who im

[californianjoe]

The most important thing is your height. how tall are you?

[Randomguy1998]

178cm or 5“8 .

[californianjoe]

178 cm equals 5.9

[Randomguy1998]

Yeah I just searched it , its 5“10. ..

[californianjoe]

I have 175(5.9)

[Anonymous]

Lucky you to be a 6...