I'll take her to dance with me. I'll sing for her. I'm a quiet guy but when I'm comfortable around you, I'll serenade you. And if you're the only person there, you pretty much know.
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456 opinions shared on Flirting topic. I'll probably help her out more then anyone else around me and pay attention to her more
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+1 yI think a lot of people can sense jr someone’s into them or not. Maybe some more then others. But a lot of people PANIC and they seem to feel like someone likes them. But they talk themslves out of it.
Other times it’s the opposite and someone clearly isn’t interested. But they can’t admit it to themselves.
It’s best to be straightforward when you're into someone.20 Reply- 301 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
+1 yShe can usually sense the attraction... the way I look at her, and only her... the way I stand close to her...
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+1 yI had a bad habit of escalating but it's very obvious in my case. For example, if a woman touches my arm in a flirty way and I was attracted to her (when I was a bachelor), I would venture to place my hand on her knee.
Still being a gentleman, making sure everything is fine, carefully paying attention to her and making sure she isn't the slightest bit uncomfortable. If she doesn't show the slightest signs of discomfort and keeps talking and laughing with me with my hand resting on her knee, then I slowly moved it to her thigh, again checking to almost paranoid levels that she isn't the slightest bit uncomfortable, not even the most nuanced bit with body language.
And that tended to keep going inch-by-inch if she didn't stop me until my hand was completely up her skirt and reaching underneath her underwear. At that point I didn't even mean to that it that far and actually thinking, "Wait, maybe this went too far!" But we got that far already.
So by that point if the woman didn't already figure it out, I was attracted to her. And I'd usually ask her out soon after.
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[*] I didn't even mean to [take] it that far [*]
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We were both generally at least a bit intoxicated in those cases. I mainly dated women from drinking environments back then. If we were sober, I might not have taken it nearly that far. But that's generally been my way is to escalate to some point. If she laughs at my joke, I connect the emotional connection we're having with some escalation of the physical.
Most of the time in rl I can tell if someone is into me by how they wanna get close to me, attentive, looks/stares at me, take me to places lol, how they speak to me, and get touchy.
But there are times if it’s my friend or co-worker I’m really friendly/comfortable with, I might be oblivious because my friends would say I’m too blind to not notice how they look/act around me 🤷🏼♀️
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u +1 yshe'll definitely get the vibe... the way I look at them is like no other and like nobody else... "there's an intensity to it"well, this is what my exes and friends would say about it
50 Reply She will know because she is going to see how scared I am just talking to her. I can't hide no matter how well I try.
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+1 yI pay attention to her especially the little things. I compliment her on the way she looks, I make jokes, and talk to her. Might not seem all that obvious in text format. But if you knew me irl I am a man of few words so when I am attracted to someone it is very obvious
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@pervaderOfass lol fascinating. I guess you must know me irl to know my dick size and that I was born out of wedlock... oh wait.
Not brain surgery. Just have to pay attention to what they say when they speak, Know something about them that you learned when being around them, look at them in a way that you would observe someone that you have respect for.
10 ReplyWhen I like her vibe, how she reacts to my conversations makes me even excited and my smile gets wider! I press their hand firmly and then a little hard just as a sign to keep her engaged:)
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+1 ySometimes I have thought I've felt it during conversations or close proximity interactions/chats, yet sometimes it must just be me or a confusion or they're only teasing/acting or cringing cringey cringe 😬
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+1 yyou can feel and see it... the way he looks at you... the way he smirks... and those shivers running down your spine...
it's rather obvious, I would say :D
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+1 yWhen I am attracted to a girl there is no doubt… I tell her. Honesty is the best policy, and the fastest (I hate wasting time.
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i want to know about her day
i buy to her what she like for example drink or chocolate small gift sometimes i pay for her hair and nails
Take her out every time and i don't want any thing from her10 Reply3.3K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Yes I think a woman would know if a man is attracted to them. Yes they can sense it or feel it also.
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+1 yI'd be oblivious to it. Which might be unfortunate.
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+1 yI make out and flirt and a lot of foreplay compliments
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I can’t handle forplay tho
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Well a few reasons I’m extremely sensative and I get worked up extremely easy you can touch me and I have an issue with prematurely cumming.
+1 yI can feel it. Even if they say no, they contradict themselves with their actions.
20 ReplySome guys are really obvious and some aren't. So, sometimes I can and sometimes I can't. 😅
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+1 yMake an effort to Get to know her and listen to what she is passionate about. Im not a smooth talker but i prefer to speak with actions
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+1 yi pull down my pants to start, and then i pull of my underwear. i just have them at my knees hanging. and then i say hello! it's so nice to meet you. shall we? they usually say yes. Asians are so great
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+1 yI tell her and try to remember little things she tells me about herself
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+1 yYou can see it in his eyes, voice tone and body language even if he tried to hide it.
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There's a song like that 😄😅 cue Herbie Fully Loaded 🤩
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@itsclearlynicholas really? 😳
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Hello is it me your looking for I can see it in your eyes I can see it in your smile unquote credit band lyrics
Be a gentleman and treat her gently and she'll know.
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And be gentle throughout the potential romance 💓 including any dates, any meets, any other moments, definitely lady there needs a return to gentlemen ♂️♂️♂️
+1 yWhen they see my happy eyes watching them they understand
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+1 yNo idea? Guys are not attracted to me.
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1.1K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Simple. I ask her out.
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+1 yPinay is back.
10 Reply366 opinions shared on Flirting topic. Giving her attention and my time
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+1 yI tease her and joke around with her
30 ReplyI tell her
10 ReplyI scream "SUCK ME BEAUTIFUL!!!" in her face
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