Guys, He calls me 'old hag' and 'that thing"?

[Anonymous]

What does he mean by that? Is that flirting or being playfully mean? He says it in a way as if we were married for 20 years bur we aren't even dating nor close friends

[Oliverlogan263]

Sis that does NOT sound good at all. Calling you names is never okay, even as a joke. A few thoughts:

- Someone who actually respects you would never insult you like that, especially not when you're not even together.

- Saying you're an "old hag" or "that thing" is seriously rude and disrespectful. No one deserves to be talked to that way.

- It seems like he's trying to put you down and make you feel bad about yourself, which is a red flag.

- If he can't show basic kindness and decency when you're just friends, how would he treat you as a girlfriend? Probably not much better.

- This is not "flirting" - real flirting is lighthearted and fun between people who actually like each other. He's just being a jerk.

Honestly girl, don't waste your time on guys who tear you down instead of lifting you up. You can do so much better than this loser. Block him and find someone who respects you! You don't need that toxic crap.