How do men react if an average looking girl starts flirting with them?

[Anonymous]

Do they run away from her because they are not into her? I’m wondering about this because I’ve been told that I have a flirty gaze and seductive aura even if though I’m not attracted to men at all (I’m asexual) and many men for some reason make a berth around me, avoid eye contact with me but get along with everyone else And act normal and friendly with them. To me however they almost try to make a point that they are not attracted. I don’t think I’m super ugly so I’m a bit confused because I’ve been told that most men have such low standards

[DaveJord]

For me, flirting is a hard thing to determine. I mean as young man and pretty much my whole life growing up, I have been taught not to make assumptions. Especially in the era of woke and me too.

With that said, the flirtatious behaviors can be easily misinterpreted. Is she being nice, or is there more to it? Hard to say, right? If she is being nice, then I am nice back to her and I avoid trying to make anything more of it.

But then you get in this loop, where she might be thinking that this guy must not be interested in me. Because in her mind she had been flirting with me for weeks and I haven't done anything about it. And then in my mind, I am thinking that she is a really nice and sweet person, and I would like to date her, but is she just being nice or is she flirting.

Then once day it all stops, and she barely says hi to you any more... so you assume you must have said something wrong, or that she was not ever really interested, and you move on.

Or you ask her out, and she is all awkward about it. Because she was just being nice, and now she is all put off. And she hardly talks to you anymore.

This cycle has played out may times in my life and it's a flip of the coin from one girl to next on whether or not its flirting or her just being nice. So, whenever I am in this situation, and I am interested, I make sure she knows I am single and available. If she is really interested, then it is on her to make her status known to me. If she does not do that, then I must assume she is not single or she is not interested.

Because like I said, we are in the age of woke and Me Too. She can ask me out or do more than flirt with me under the umbrella of the "I am just being nice." If she does not make any attempt to go beyond that, then it dies on the vine, because I made it known I am available.

[jahaims]

Just because a one or a few people told you those things doesn't mean that is how the world views you. If you are asexual being flirty doesn't make sense.

[Asker]

Some people have a resting bitch face but are no bitches

[jahaims]

Not even slightly relevant to what I said

[Asker]

Yes it is

[MGTK7]

Suprisingly well apparently. Saw this video of a girl trying eye contact or pick up lines with strangers and many gave her their numbers. She was friendly and I think you could tell she didn't really mean it but when she asked for their numbers they were down unless they had a girlfriend

https://www.youtube.com/embed/LRJ6fuoUnEg

[moneymagnet24]

I would flirt back if she gonna give me blowjob

[AnAmazingGuy]

nice try