I work at a gas station & i can tell when guys are into me. Some will flirt & others i can tell they do but are just shy. Is it too forward to offer my number? See where things go. Or is it a, if they wanted it they would ask for it kinda thing?
Its 2024 not 1924. Hell yeah if thats your style. You do you. Don't let other fools tell you thats slutty. It isn't anymore slutty then when a male approaches a woman. The dudes that say this sh*t control the person they're with. Thank them for their service... of letting you know he ain't him! Glow and go girl!!
I think most girls should offer there numbers more because us guys do get shy and feel stupid try to hit on you while you work. I think if you like the guy enough and want to give him your number or get his I don’t think it be too forward. Your showing the guy your interested and attracted to him.
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You go, girl, good for you. Men of the world will love you for this. 👌
If you're interested, sure, give the guy your number... whether he asks or not.
Nah. This is 2024, not 1940.
Just don't be slutty about it unless that's the impression you want to give.
Just be smooth and have an excuse like, "Here's my number. Call me if you want to check if those cigarettes/that beer/whatever is on sale." If he's into you, he'll use that for an excuse to call you, thinking it was his idea. If not you can fall back on the claim that you were just providing good customer service.
Holy shit that is a terrible script. Don't do that OP.
The natural gender roles dictate that you, the chick, should be the less direct, more passive of the two. Ideally you would marionette him so he would think everything is his idea. However, you still have autonomy and your own style and you can do whatever you want, and depending on how big your tits are, it'll usually always work.
That said, you still should understand rizz and how rizz is different for guys and girls. You being a gal and getting a guy's number is NOT gonna be exactly the same as the reverse, with just the speakers switched.
You should take into consideration that giving your number or asking for his is inherently bold and you should lean into that rather than shy away from that. You should play up the "knows exactly what she wants vixen" trope rather than trying to play it off as just good customer service or being post modern feminist or whatever. Pretending to be doing good customer service is just gonna feel weird, and that weirdness could cause doubt in his mind the is truly any attraction. Playing it off as "Oh, you seem cool, let's be friends, here's my phone number" also sends the mixed signal, and he might choose not to call you, not necessarily because he thinks you're being truthful, but also because he wants a proper compliment.
In the rare case when a girl makes a move we want it to be unambiguous because that just feels more genuine and heartfelt. The best way to get a guy to call you is to make him think that it would break your heart if he didn't. Being wishy washy and half assing the compliment might give him pause to think that you're just bored and you want somebody to go out with, but not necessarily him.
Girls are notoriously chickenshit, so that's another reason why these feints are so irksome.
You don't have to be over the top in your compliments and affection when you offer him your number, you just have to be genuine. And simple, "You're cute... here's my number, call me sometime." is gonna go a lot further than, "Oh, you so SEXYYYY, do you work out? I bet all the ladies are always asking you to help them move... Listen Papi, I'm usually here Monday through Friday until 5, why don't you come and visit me, I'll always take good care of you. hehehe. Here's my business card." As cool and sexy as script two is, and I would totally chase that tail if it were me, I kind of think that most guys would feel that script one is more welcoming.
@agonz914 Dm me, I kinda wanna hear what scripts you come up with.
It's not too forward because some guys like myself even if I was interested in a girl at a gas station there's no way of knowing if they're single some women might not appreciate it and you're harassing them after work so I would suggest you let the guy know
So here’s what I thought as soon as I read this. My first through was slut. Like how many other dudes have you given your number to? How many other dudes have you hooked up w. She’s pimping pussy out of the gas station. I know I know not all women are like that. You see a lot of people on a daily basis that you may think are cute. But that was my first thought.
@77five lol another girl who doesn’t like an answer given by a man, who most likely the question was directed toward, gets her feelings hurt. She asked so I responded. But you know better cause you used to be a dude.
@adam6402 I’m sure a number of men thought something similar. But we can’t say it because now we’re sexist. She asked. I gave an honest answer to which another girl got offended. This is why you can’t really be honest w women. I Ben said I know not all women are like that, but that’s my first thought.
And that’s why I mentioned I know not all women are like this but that’s the first impression I’d get as well as a lot of other men. But if he’s smarter than that even if he thought that he should think the same as well that not all women are like that.
Hmm. Since you’re talking about men who are total strangers and could have ulterior motives, I wouldn’t give them my real number, if I were you. Instead, create an alternative number that can’t be traced to you. People are crazy and you know what they have in mind. Not scare you, but just err on the side of caution.
*you don’t know what they have in mind.
I generally don't like asking for a girl's number while she's at work.
I feel like it usually comes off as taboo as the girl is balancing work professional courtesy and actually being herself. Assuming we've built a rapport over time I might ask but that will probably take me awhile before I don't feel like just some customer hitting on the girl. If the girl just cut through that and gave me her number that'd make things simple lol.
"I work at a gas station and can tell when guys are into me"
Let me just stop you there😆😆
If you're working at a gas station then you're probably only meeting these guys for a minute max. Guys who are "into you" after only seeing you for a minute are only interested in you for sex. And if you want to give all these guys your number then go for it, but it does make you sound like a hoe. It sounds like there’s more pimping than pumping going on at this gas station. Sorry to be blunt, and I'm not saying you are this sort of person, but it's just how I interpret the situation and I'm sure a lot of guys would agree.
Yes i understand that is your perspective, I do only meet them for a few minutes but attraction is important. 4 e. g. a man asked 4 MY # last night & i was attracted to him but after having a conv w him. He said he was married but she is always away working. I told him to lose my #. Fact is I won't ever know if i dont try. Who knows, Maybe ill find a keeper :)
Hell no! I'm a guy, and even if the vibes are totally there, I don't make the first move. Probably why I am alone. It's extremely refreshing to have the woman make the first move. And a bold move like that... yeah, that's like a dream come true for any guy. Even, in rare instance he may not be into you... it's still a huge compliment.
I don't know how to tell if a guy’s into me. They flirt, check me out, and ask for my number but they still werent into me. I wouldn't do it.
I'd give him your number. It's hard to cross the business line to customer. I've seen guys hit on the clerk while right in front of me in line. I've been accused of stealing in the past with no evidence for not hitting on a clerk. Basically, if there is a connection go for it, see what he says. Just don't accuse him of stealing if he rejects you or doesn't take initiative, like a nut.
That is asking for trouble. I know dozens of people, very few of them have my number. If they need to contact me, there are many other ways they can do it.
No, it's not... the guy should ASK for it... Your giving it to him doesn't guarantee his interest.
Not at all just make sure he's aware of ur intentions u no if u just want to hookup or looking to have a relationship
straightforward but not enough to initiate sex 😭
other men might think yous a slut though 🙄🤦🏽♂️
No, not at all. I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.
I think it is ok, but just get to know them a bit first before you give them the number.
"Forward" isn't the right word for it. Give them your Google number.
While on the job? It could be considered inappropriate or even harassment. I would never do this.
Who cares. If they get upset by getting you number, they aren’t secure enough for you.
My father gave me advice when I was young. He told me to keep my personal life separate and away from work. I believe that is was excellent advice.
It would be kind of cute to write it on their receipt and tell them you gave them your private line if they "want anything else". If you say that last suggestively, they'll know what you mean.
You're engaged. Yet you still want to hand out your number to anyone that flirts with you?
Glad I'm not marrying you.
Nope. Especially in this society vast majority of men will not risk approaching a woman.
Why are you asking this?
I was just testing some functions of the site.
Maybe but being forward isn't really a bad thing tho
Bold women get my attention. Love that you do that!!
No, it's just the best thing to do, so if I don't least hear from you I hate. Myself if. iss something special!!!
If you are comfortable with them and you know them I don't see a problem just be careful till you know more about them before giving any more info.
Not at all. More girls should take the first step
I don't think so, it's not 1897 anymore. Some guys are too chicken shit to make a move
Never a bad thing most dudes would be beside themselves I’m sure. Rock it
I always resented guys having to take the lead
m Yes but how many will you give it too?
I don’t mind, it’s simpler her giving me hers
No problem if that is what you want to do
I personally wouldn't do it.
I would be afraid to come out as too thirsty.
See, although I think is perfectly fine for a woman to initiate conversation with a guy she's interested in I think offering my number is a bit too much. I like to give men the space to chase me. I would just initiate conversation instead like 'how are you doing today? I see you here a lot' and then let things flow.
I think its a turn on
nothing wrong with that
No it's okay actually
No it would be okay with me.
nothing wrong with that
Yes, if you have a good conversation
Yes..
Nope you go hun bun
That's a bit too much
Go for it !
Nope.
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