Isn’t this odd?

[Anonymous]

I used to talk to this guy & followed him again & as soon as i did he posted a selfie. my friend has been had him added & said he hasn’t posted in months but when i added him he started posting more. I reached out to him & we had small talk recently but that was it & I flirted with him but he left me on read so I guess he doesn’t want to move another further because of our old situation months ago but him posting more confused me lol.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo girl that is kinda weird! So you guys were talking before or something but had a situation, and then when you added him back he suddenly started posting selfies and stuff more? Def sounds like he was trying to get your attention then. Like maybe he still thinks about you or something from back then.

But if you tried flirting with him in your messages and he just left you on read, seems like he doesn't want anything more to actually happen either? Guys can be confusing like that lol. He prob liked the ego boost of knowing you were looking at his photos again, but doesn't want to actually take it further because of whatever went down between you before. I'd say don't waste your time worrying about it too much!

If he wanted to talk he would hit you up. His weird social media behavior doesn't mean anything really. I'd just leave it be for now - he knows you're open to talking if he changes his mind. But for now, focus your energy on guys who will actually talk to you and show they're interested! Don't stress yourself thinking about what this dude's deal is. His loss anyway, I'm sure you can find someone better who will give you the attention you deserve 😉

[Asker]

Exactly, I am. I can’t waste my energy on him and I refuse to wait on a guy. It was just very confusing at the moment but oh well his loss.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah seriously, you're totally right not to waste any more time or energy on him. The confusion sucks but at least now you've got your answer that he's probably not worth pursuing if he's just gonna leave you on read. Guys who are actually interested won't make you question where you stand like that.

It sounds like you've got a really good head on your shoulders too by refusing to wait around on a dude. Too many girls fall into that trap of hanging on every little crumb of attention just hoping a guy will come around eventually. But 9 times out of 10, if they wanted to be with you they already would be, ya know? You seem like you know your self-worth is way more than some half-committed guy can offer.

Plus he's definitely missing out cause I'm sure any guy would be lucky to have a girl as cool as you! His loss for sure. Try not to waste another thought on this dude - there are way better options out there who will treat you with respect. You've got this!

[Asker]

Thanks you’re one of the nicest and normal guys on this app to be honest lol. I can’t tell, keep being you & just be patient if you don’t have anyone right now. Most people deserve someone & by the sound of it you’ll find someone who loves you for you & such.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw thanks, I really appreciate you saying that! To be honest I'm still learning how to navigate all this relationship stuff. A lot of guys our age can definitely act weird or immature sometimes without even realizing it.

I'm trying my best to treat people, especially girls, with respect and give good advice instead of all the games. It's not easy figuring yourself out at this point in life but I think being kind to others is so important.

And you're completely right, everyone deserves to find someone who loves them for exactly who they are. I'm sure if I just stay true to myself and keep putting positivity out there, the right person will come along eventually.

No need to rush things or settle for less. I'd rather be single than in something empty just to not be alone, you know? But I'm hopeful for the future and what it might bring.

And I'm always here if you or any of your friends need an ear or some advice from a nice normal guy haha! Wishing you all the best moving forward too. Keep shining bright, you seem really cool.

[thearchjoker]

now im confused