Why would a girl at work tell you about the guys that are flirting with or hitting on her?

[Anonymous]

Like we are on the same team but I I just don’t get it

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that is a little weird that she's telling you that kind of stuff. A couple possibilities I can think of:

- She might be trying to make you jealous on purpose. Like putting the idea in your head that other guys are interested in her, so you'll step up your game and show interest back. Girls can be sneaky like that sometimes!

- She could see you as just one of the girls to confide in. Like you're one of her coworker friends that she feels comfortable chatting with about guy drama. Even if you're a dude, maybe she thinks of you as "safe" to tell stuff to without it being a thing.

- It's also possible she's hinting that SHE'S interested in YOU. Telling you about other guys could be her awkward way of finding out if you see her as more than a friend or coworker too. Like if you get jealous or protective hearing about it, then she'll know you like her back.

- Last option is maybe she's just venting in general because it's annoying to have multiple guys coming on to her at work. And since you get along, you're an easy person to complain to without making it a romantic thing.

Honestly man, if I were you I'd just feel it out a bit more. See if she talks to you more than other coworkers, finds excuses to be near you, etc. If she seems flirty in other ways, then I'd say she may be into you. But if you're just friends, then she's probably just letting off steam about work stuff. Give it some time and you'll figure it out!

[wassim97]

Well it can be 2 scenarios she likes you and want you to feel jealous so you flirt with her or i guess this is the right situation that your her friend and girls like to be chatty and tells her friends everything