Guys, do you mean anything by flirting with that girl at work that you are crushing on?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Of course. But the thing is figuring out if he’s just flirting w you to between into your pants or if he’s flirting w you because he’s interested in something real.

[Asker]

well, he didn't proposition me for hookups in the year we have know each other... unlike other guys. he gets nervous and stammers if i even come close

[Opinion Owner]

Most men aren’t going to come straight out w a proposition like that. So they know they have to play the game to get what they’re after. Some men will if they know a girl really likes them. Because in her mind she’s thinking if I say yes then he may develop feelings for me so it won’t be just an friends with benefits. But if I say no he won’t want anything to do w me.

[Asker]

true

[OlderAndWiser]

This doesn't sound like a hypothetical question about us, so why don't you post another question and tell us what actually happened?

[Asker]

astute. he has been mooning at me for a year but doesn't admit anything. i am about to leave this place and i want to know he was just flirting for fun or if his feelings are real

[OlderAndWiser]

Say to him, "I'd love to have lunch with you sometime before I leave, but my schedule is going to be busy for the next several weeks. Would you be interested in getting together at a happy hour somewhere convenient after work one day?"

[Asker]

I hope he asks me

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't need to wait for him to ask!

[Asker]

True

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Throwawaynowknow]

Huh? Do we mean anything by flirting on girl we crushing on? Well if we crushing on her, and we flirting with her, then .. I'll let you figure out the rest

[Anonymous]

We guys absolutely love girls... sadly girls don't like guys 😔😭