Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yYes I do. Friends these days are hard to find, especially if they’re a really good friend. Almost like a brother. So if things go bad between the two of you, there’s a good chance your brother is going to lose his friend. What if his friend cheats on you? But then your brother continues to be friends w him? Chances are you’re not going to be ok w that. Like bro you support him even though he cheated on me. I think you need to talk to your brother first. If he doesn’t like it I’d respect his feelings. I have a lot of male friends who would die for me, especially when I was in the military. But the way a lot of them treated women, no I wouldn’t want my sister w them. Unless he’s shown me that he’s really changed, which would take a while to convince me because I’ve seen some of the most vile things, heard a lot of vile things from friends as far as what they did w these women.
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Asker1 yI mean, personally my brother is getting married to a girl who used to be friends with my sister and my sister also dated someone he used to be friends with so I’m not sure he’d be upset if I dated one of his friends but not everyone is like that I guess
Opinion Owner1 yIt depends. Women tend to look at things differently. A lot of women will say yes because they’re thinking of their self, their feelings, their emotions. They’re not considering their brother’s friendship. That’s why I mentioned talking to him. Ask him how he’d feel. Let’s say you two dated. Now his the time his friend would have spent w your brother goes to you. Where does that leave your brother?
Opinion Owner1 yNow w that said heat if he knows his sister isn’t a good person. That she’s not good w relationships, jumps from man to man. Don’t you think he should be honest w his friend about his sister?
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328 opinions shared on Flirting topic. It’s not wrong but it could be awkward to your brother , knowing his friend is trying to get with his sister , It happens , think about how you would feel if your brother was flirty with your best friend and she started investing more of her time into your brother over investing her time with you , and your friendship instead? You more than likely will be upset and and jealous about the whole thing. So it’s best not to flirt with your brothers’ friend unless you get his content to do so , if your brother says No , you are best to stop flirting with his friend unless you want to become enemies with your brother and lose respect from your brother as well.
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1 yNope i used to do it all the time and dated some of my brothers friends. My brother was cool with it. My brother has even dated some of my friends.
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1 yIf you both single, why not? Nothing wrong with that.
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@itsannalee i second!
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1 yNo, and if you need advice feel free to shoot me a DM.
It’s fine to flirt to see if there is mutual attraction and if you feel that there is, pull him to the side and talk to him. Nothing wrong with it at all especially since you know him. Just don’t hide things that’s what will get you.
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1 yNot at all. Many good relationships start with flirting, and I know several couples who met each other through a brother or sister.
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1 yWho is your brother, and how do I make him my friend? I'll send you my cock pics once you flirt with me 😉
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1 yJust think of the consequences. He’s definitely gonna be around so if he picks up what ur putting down this may stir the pot up a bit. He may not make a move because of the “bro thing” it’s real but, it’s good to know ur kinda safe to flirt with him but, it could potentially psychologically hurt him if you really lead him on with no where to take it
10 ReplyNo. However, you would be wise to ask your brother his opinion before doing anything. If your brother knows that guy is bad news for women/you he will definitely tell you and that will save you trouble.
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1 yIt shouldn't be a problem, but you probably should talk with him about it first, or at least consider whether he will be bothered by it. That's really the only problem that your brother will have a problem with it.
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m 1 yIt’s not wrong as such, however it can put your brother in an awkward position. I dated a close friends sister, that was 8 months of awkward at times. There is nothing wrong with it but it can be awkward lol.
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1 yDefinatly. It shows that you lack respect for your brother. Of all the men you could decide to flirt with you decide for your brothers friend? Its more of a thrill, i think than something serious for you.
10 ReplyAssume the friend isn't married/already in a relationship, then sure. Lots of people meet their partners/spouses through mutual people (such as a brother).
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1 yI don't think it's wrong, but it's definitely awkward. Especially if this friend usually tells your brother all about his love/sex life.
Your brother probably won't like the idea of one of his friends plowing his little sister.
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1 yAs long you're single and he's single, it's perfectly fine.
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1 yDepends on which part of the world you are from it could get complicated.
10 ReplyMy brother is married, and my sister sets me up with her single friends.
10 ReplyIf your both single and you both like eachother then it's fine as long as there isn't a big age gap.
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1 yNot unless they’re already with someone else.
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1 yWhy is it wrong?
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Asker1 ySome people consider it “against the bro code”. I’m not entirely sure why it would upset them though.
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I think that is technically dating an ex boyfriend's friends.
Flirting with your brother's friend, there's nothing wrong with that. I don't see why especially if it's truly his friend and he trusts him. - 1 y
Agreed
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I'm sorry to hear that.
1 yYou can choose who you want to be attracted to no problem in that
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1 yyes if you just want sex. You need money and sex.
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Are you into roleplaying a bank teller, and then seducing a villain during robbery?
Depends on whether you are actually interested or just a cockteaser.
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1 yWhat's wrong with that?
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Asker1 yI don't know. Some consider it “against the bro code” I guess?
Anonymous(36-45)1 yDo you want to do him?
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Opinion Owner1 yWell? Do you?
Opinion Owner1 yOh if you want him you should DEFINITELY do him!
Asker1 yYou mean flirt with him?
Opinion Owner1 yStart with flirting and see where it goes!
1 yNot wrong your just a L sister
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Asker1 ySo you’re saying it would be wrong then. If it wasn’t wrong then it wouldn’t make someone an L sister
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Regardless of what you do you’re gonna be an L sister. If you think your brothers friend could be the one for you go for it don’t let anyone’s opinion stop you from being happy. Take that risk. In the end of the day you’re the only sister he will ever have.
Asker1 yWdym “regardless of what you do you’re gonna be an L sister”? How would I be an L sister either way? I’m confused so please explain what you mean.
1 yIt takes two to tango
20 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Flirting topic. Not if you're actually willing to fk him.
10 ReplyThats normal and happen too often then we think!
10 ReplyI flirted with my sisters so guess not
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1 yYes it can't be too wrong
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Asker1 yI’m assuming you meant that there’s nothing wrong with flirting with his friend
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no he shouldn't flirt
1 yNothing wrong!
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1 yNo its not
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1 ySo so wrong to me 😭
10 ReplyIts never worth it
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1 yOf course not!
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1 yIt is immoral
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