I'm a very attractive tall guy. All girls on the train immediately stare at me. I have no confidence due to bullying, how do I approach the girls?

[Anonymous]

I am 6'4, I always genuinely thought I was ugly because I got bullied severely but over the years I understood I was actually very attractive. When I get on the bus girls can't their eyes if me, it's so cute to see them struggling to get my attention and at the same time not make it too obvious. But I'm so extremely attuned to not make people feel remotely uncomfortable that for the life of me I can't get myself to embarrass them by following them outside the train and asking them for their number. I'd die from embarrassment myself. If it was just me and one girl it would be easy but the public aspect is like reliving the bullying because I got unwanted attention on me. I know I need therapy but my looks probably won't last forever so how do I get these girls numbers? Other people also stare at me because of my good looks so I am never stealthy in any way. I'm also at least a foot taller than everybody else. I know it's a really good problem to have but years after figuring out I look good I haven't been on a single date with a girl I like because I can't approach them. What do I do? How can I create a good situation to get their number?

[Summeroflove]

I am sorry about bullying but just come from the heart approach and say hi, what’s your name, this is my name, the list goes on. If you’re putting the effort into the conversation and it’s dry, well try for exchanging numbers and see if she’ll wanna meet and talk later.

It can be as simple as sitting next to someone and striking a conversation up. The worst she can do is reject you. If she’s a real bitch about it wow did she show her true colors and did you a favor by not being a part of your life.

[Nikki1989]

Don't be so full of yourself. Staring is not always a good thing.

[Asker]

Jealousy stings I guess but thank you for your reply.

[quickquesocheese]

This!!! 😂 So true.

[Asker]

@quickquesocheese I pity you and the woman above. Your lives must be filled with pain to be basking in negativity like that. I genuinely hope your lives turn around for the better.

[quickquesocheese]

Thanks! ♥️

[Anonymous]

Your height and weight?

[Asker]

6'4, 194cm, 80kg, I'm in very good shape and you see my muscle definition through my shirt.

[Asker]

I should also say that in my location people aren't very tall. I'm the tallest person wherever I go.

[Opinion Owner]

And what’s your type in women

[Asker]

I'm really not picky at all. Any can be attractive, height, skin color, body type, the only thing I definitely don't find attractive is being overweight. I'm very well in shape and I'm looking for the same.

[Opinion Owner]

What height weight , hair u like in a girl. Which age do u want to marry

[Asker]

I truly never thought about this and it truly doesn't matter to me. Any height taller than 150cm, any hair. Age similar to me but like all guys I don't mind younger than me.

[Opinion Owner]

It shows you are desperate and only into hookups. No one would have no preference in choosing a wife

[Asker]

You wouldn't believe how many men are desperate as you describe it. Very few men get to pick, it's women who pick. Only the top 10% attractive men can pick but almost all women can pick.

[Walksbehindtherows]

Take a walk