Why are girls afraid to approach me? I'm a nice guy, I treat girls very respectfully.

[circachamptyler]

I feel like girl's won't ever talk with me they just stare at me and I am also a shy guy so having to speak with them is hard when they keep looking at me, it is very intimidating,I just wish they could talk to me I've also got this one girl that keeps looking at me but she is to shy to speak with me and some days shell stop in the halls just to look at me other days shell ignore me and act like I'm not there and I really like her but she keeps giving me looks one day and then doesn't the next she also tries to make friends with my friends so she can be around me more, and some days shell always appear where I am and she also seems 2 have a lot of guys friends as well so it looks like she has no prob talking with guys she is outgoing and easy to talk with it's just when I'm around she gets all quiet and will seem nervous around me.

[Cluelessgirl95]

She sounds sweet, but this girl would just be a little thing not a girl you could have a nice long relationship with. if you did it would be hard to get real because your both intimidated by each other. When you’re with each other it's going to be hard to get comfortable with her because you want to impress her and she wants to impress you. in my opinion a shy sweet guy needs a girl who he's thrown together with in an awkward situation or the girl you spend one night with at a party or something and you notice she's fun and smart and funny and is kind of crazy. This kind of girl would have enough personality difference to completely you but also enough to get you out of your shell and be comfortable. You may see this girl a different way than others but don't let that get in the way. I have a very, and I do mean very attractive guy friend and he always has girl problems he has a thing for girls who are quiet and shy and don't really talk to him. Then he met this girl who is an in your face kind of girl but is still respectable. They are perfect for each other, and she's only kind of cute but she is not at all intimidated by his looks. That’s what you need.

[julierocheleau]

that girl sounds just like me some girls can easily talk to a hundred guys she doesn't like

but when she's around that "one" guy she "likes" she gets scared, speechless because she doesn't know what to say what if she says something that might turn you away , she wants it to be perfect and if she's like me she probably thinks of things to say about a hundred times a day but nothing ever sounds good enough maybe she feel like your too good for her

hope that helped that's my understanding personally

[Amazing285285]

It's not always like that. So the guy you like you make the effort? To talk to him?

[Amazing285285]

All I'm saying is most outgoing girls talk to guys their attracted to

[aliba]

i have a friend a lot like you. he is so gorgeous, but he is so shy! I try to talk to him quite a bit, and I think he's comfortable around me, but all these girls like him but they don't know how to treat him because he is so hot, but so unapporachable.

this girl probably likes you but when she ignores you she is trying to make it seem like she doesn't because she thinks you are out of her leauge.

you get what you put out so if you want girls to talk to you and be outgoing with you, you have to talk to girls and be outgoing with them. if you are scared, just fake it until you make it!

hope this helps, if you have any questions just ask!

[Grubhub]

Interesting 🤔

[dafne88]

I get this girl. I act the same way with guys I like : I don't talk to them. Why ? Insecurity : afraid of rejection. I just wish they would come talk to me. Not once at least twice,so I could then work up the courage to go talk to them.With guys I don't like I have no problem being myself and acting completely normal. It's the guys I like that make me nervous, and worried.

[Grubhub]

How can you tell if she’s nervous that she finds I’m you attractive or it’s because you’re so big?

[summerchick_101]

yea I have the same problem when it comes to guys, it sucks, but seriously, if you really like the girl, you should ask her out or something ;) make your move. By the sounds of it, she's into you. I do this all the time lol and I'm sure plentyy of girls do the same. Just go for it, trust me you've got nothing to lose!

[sarahh_12]

Do they stare you down or is it more of checking out? If its checking you out I would recommend just smiling or something. Show them that you know they exist and your interested.

[angelheart]

why don't you ask the girl that question?

[circachamptyler]

Well because this is an advice sight if I asked the girl I probably would not be using this sight.