Do You Think Beauty Is The Eye Of The Beholder?

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By That, I mean Difference in Opinion Conflict in different views and ways people see things  Here's a few examples:  "One girls Trash is. Another girls treasure" vs "get real girl, look at him!"  "Who cares , to me he's Hot" vs " Girl, you're Hot. What will think when they you with him?"  There's a common Urban saying that goes "beauty is the eyes of the Beholder" meaning what one girl finds attractive in a Guy isn't what the other sees. For example Brnda think Jake is Cute and eye catching. Yet her friend find Jake gross and a Creep.

EzraIsShy76028 · Accepted Answer

I mean... to an extent, yeah.

Like every individual person is different, and has their own opinions about stuff.

Yet at the same time, there's such a thing as conventional beauty, and that's what the vast majority of people are into.

And most people regardless of who they are won't be attracted to a severely physically deformed person. The chance of a person being attracted to someone like that is not zero, but very small. Like perhaps one in a million, maybe even one in a billion.

Lots of people are attracted to people who are conventionally considered "ugly," yet almost no one is attracted to a person with a severe facial deformity that makes their face barely even look human.

It's not fair and it's brutal and it's cruel, by those physically deformed people just lost the genetic lottery I guess.

Some of them do find happiness otherwise though, even if not through romance or sex. Some of them are really strong mentally and can push themselves to do almost whatever they want, much more than many people without any deformities. So all hope is not lost based on their appearance alone.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

yes beaty is in the eye of the beholder. but if you survey a LOT of beholder, you will find that there's certain trends and that beauty isn't all that subjective. there's just natural varience to the perception of beauty like pretty much any fact in social science.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes, there are some celebrities people call pretty/handsome and i am really not seeing the same thing as them.

PsychicBoobs · Accepted Answer

But when people are in love you tend to be in love with the persons faults too. So it's all chemical.

emeraldsaphire · Answer

Humans are like Ogres we have layers. There is a part of us that says beauty is 100% subjective, but we have another layer that's only interested in having good genes and another layer that wants social acceptances. Bottom line people are complicated so I say both!

IslaTheWitch · Answer

it depends on what you are looking at... I'm more of an observer... so, I don't watch the appearances... but behaviors... and I like when the person is interesting... on the inside :D

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

It's in the eye of the beholder.  Every time I see an ugly woman dragging her ugly kid behind her, I think to myself, "You know, someone actually wanted to fuck that woman at some point."

Sevenpointfive · Answer

don't name your animals beauty after this post. i can see that being the good premise for a childrens book. but no. beauty is not the holder, beholder, but the shareholder. it is now an nft.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Absolutely, the saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is a timeless truth.

Ladsin2 · Answer

Nah. Beauty standards are pretty much universal. Certain hip to waste ratio, hair length, build etc. Some men may be attracted to some women at the tail-ends, but betting on that is a poor choice for relationship success.

Fireguy17 · Answer

what you find attractive in a person, others may not.

Pohjolan · Answer

Yes like what foods one likes is a matter of taste. However strawberries are more popular than reindeer hooves.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes my husband behold my beauty and wanted it all to himself.

LiamS95 · Answer

I find that a woman can become far more beautiful then I initially thought with time.

ronandamberspencer · Answer

Some of it. There are some absolutes, but the mind is a very powerful thing.

strateguy632 · Answer

It is, definitely

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Yup definitely!

Delia2005 · Answer

Yes sometimes wonder how the two got together.

Delia2005 · Answer

Yes sometimes wonder how the two got together.

RageBabe · Answer

Definitely.

Rimaisme · Answer

Yeah

Emmytexrex · Answer

Yeah it is

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, Definitely.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Of course.

eagle1951 · Answer

Yess

Spaceymacy · Answer

Of Course!!

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