Girls, do women prefer to be approached when they are alone or in a group?

[Anonymous]

Especially for warm approaches

Alone

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[SueShe]

I don't know what a "warm" or "cold" approach is. I presume that it means that it is a way a girl is disturbed.

I hate it, I abhor it when I am approached because I am very well aware what the aim behind that guy is for approaching a woman. In the vast majority of cases, the testosterone of that guy is doing the talking and as such, the real aim is to get into the pants of the woman.

Thus I do not appreciate and nor do I like to be approached by men because I know what they want and I am not ready to give them what they are seeking.

[Asker]

By "warm" I mean I am already acquainted with the person. The opposite is "cold", as in approaching a stranger.

Calling an approach a "disturbance" instantly maligns the question. Your lived experience is valid though, and it's worth considering.

[SueShe]

As a girl in her prime age, I can tell you that I have been disturbed more times than I can count. It is always a disturbance because I am never ever interested in what those guys want from me.

Nobody approaches a woman without very specific intentions in mind. Approaching someone to ask the time of the day or to inquire about directions is obsolete since the appearance of smartphones. Thus, it leaves only one very specific reason why a man would approach a woman.

[Asker]

I don't think stereotyping is beneficial here. Do you prefer to engage romantic interests instead?

[SueShe]

I don't engage romantic adventures. I am simply not interested in what men want.

[Asker]

I specifically didn't restrict the question to men.

[Jessica405]

What makes you think any woman wants to be approached in any way? Those that are married or have partners may well feel intimidated.

[Asker]

Fair question, which is why I specified warm approaches. About the lady I have in mind, we have flirted with each other publicly multiple times, so I'm not concerned on that front. The issue is sometimes she's with colleagues and sometimes she's alone, and I'm wondering if she's signaling she wants to talk privately or not.

[Jessica405]

If you know her, then go for it when she is alone. You have nothing to lose.

[emeraldsaphire]

Personally, I don't like being approached at all, but I also don't like approaching others. I want to be approached by guys who I like, but I rarely like guys, and they can't read my mind. So yeah you guys are kinda screwed :')

[Anonymous]

Just don't approach women. Some will complain men don't approach anymore and some women will complain that men do. Just save yourself the headache. Unless you are rich and handsome just don't approach women.

[MissBis]

I don’t really have a preference. Anything works for me

[Nikki1989]

It makes no difference to me personally.

[CarolinaGirl5]

We prefer to be approached at an approachable setting by a man who is attractive, intelligent, educated, has a personality and his money in line

[Crazzyyworld]

Women expect men to come to rescue her from her ditch and bring her to his castle and live there forever with lots of servants and animals

[Faizam]

Because in group can be secret girl haters so alone

[Abbycado]

Group of I have a choice.

[jazzy34]

Either way works for me. 😊

[Rimaisme]

For what?