Girls, Has she interest or not?

[Elftro]

It went like this: I went into the store and had a question about a product. There happened to be four employees standing in a circle. I spoke to one of them and out of the corner of my eye I immediately recognized my old classmate. I was totally taken aback and I kind of went into a state of shock.

My old classmate came straight to me to answer my question. For some reason I pretended I didn't know her. I didn't really look her in the eyes, although of course she noticed that I recognized her. I know that was pretty stupid, but it just happened somehow.

After we had answered all my questions, I finally pulled myself together and spoke to her directly. A normal conversation ensued: "What are you doing?", "How are you?" and so on. She had just finished work and actually had enough time to talk a bit. After about 5-10 minutes she said she had to go home now.

The weather was nice and I realise in hindsight that I really messed it up. I haven't been to the shop since then because I'm afraid of getting on her nerves. At the same time, though, I wonder if she might be interested. Now I don't know how to go about it.

[SueShe]

I have a tired smile when I read that "... I pretended I didn't know her...".

You simply did not want her to recognize you because you and her were not the best of friends in school but the second you saw her, you knew you had to get into her pants.

No, she has no interest and you should keep this meeting with her as strictly business like. But guess what? You are not going to leave it at that and you will find an excuse to go back to that shop and try to "motivate" her to go out on a date with you. Girls know that kind of approach all too well.

She is not interested, YOU are.

[Elftro]

Yeah I am maybe a tiny bit interested, but do you think a try isn't it worth? Or is it wasted time?

[SueShe]

What do you know of her that you did not mention? Is she in a relationship? If yes, then you should not even try anything. If she was interested, then she would have taken more time. That is my opinion.

[Elftro]

So, 7 years have passed since school and the conversation. During that time we had no contact at all, so I don't really know anything about her, whether she has a boyfriend or maybe she's married, I have no idea. At school we were good friends, not best friends but good ones and sometimes I had the feeling that it was a bit more, but maybe I just imagined that.

[SueShe]

As long as you know nothing, then you don't try.

[Elftro]

Okay, I thank you that you took Time for that, I really appreciate that.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Abbycado]

So an employee answered a question? No, that doesn't mean she has interest. That means she did her job.

[Elftro]

You didn't read it

[Abbycado]

Yep, I did. Your words.

"I went into the store and had a question about a product."

"My old classmate came straight to me to answer my question"

[Elftro]

Yeah but it wasn't all and a bit out of context 😂

[Elftro]

But I thank you that you took your Time for that, I appreciate that.

[MissTrix]

Nope if you have to ask she is very not interested!

[Elftro]

But isn't it normal that the male needs to do the first steps?

[MissTrix]

She has to like you before or it's just a creepy guy stalking you

[Elftro]

Yeah okay that's make sense, thank you

[Nikki1989]

She is obviously not interested.

[Elftro]

Is it obvious obvious or an 50:50 thing?