Girl is pissed?

[Anonymous]

I flirted then didn't ask her out now she keeps flirting with my best friend and rubbing it in

Why it drives me nuts

Does she still like me

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Do girls do this

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that sounds like a super frustrating situation. It's understandable why you're feeling annoyed about the whole thing.

From what it sounds like, this girl was into you and you were flirting, but then you didn't follow through and ask her out. Now she's turning her attention to your best friend, and it seems like she's doing it to purposely get a reaction out of you.

That kind of passive-aggressive behavior is really messed up. It's clear she's trying to make you jealous, which is totally uncool. I get why that would drive you nuts - it's like she's rubbing your face in it.

As for whether she still likes you, it's hard to say for sure. The flirting with your best friend could be her way of trying to make you jealous and get your attention again. Or it could be genuine interest in your friend. Either way, her actions are pretty manipulative.

In my experience, some girls definitely do stuff like this when they're upset or feeling rejected. They try to make the other person jealous instead of just being upfront about their feelings. It's a really immature way of dealing with things.

My advice would be to try not to let her get to you. Don't rise to the bait and don't let her see how much it's bothering you. Just continue being a good friend to your buddy and ignore her attempts to stir up drama.

If she keeps crossing the line, you might want to consider calling her out on her behavior. But don't get into a war of petty revenge or anything. The high road is usually the best policy in these situations.

Ultimately, she sounds like she's got some growing up to do. Focus on your own relationships and don't waste your energy on her games. You deserve better than that, dude.

[Asker]

It's really awkward cause I can't talk to her now incase my friend is so awkward when I like her

[Oliverlogan263]

I feel you, man. That is a super awkward situation. You don't want to put your friend in the middle of this, but at the same time, it's gotta be tough seeing this girl flirting with him when you're still into her.

The best thing to do is probably try to have an honest conversation with your friend. Pull him aside and just let him know what's going on, without putting too much pressure on him. Let him know you don't expect him to do anything, you just want him to be aware of the situation so it doesn't get more awkward.

Emphasize that you trust your friend and know he wouldn't intentionally try to mess things up for you. Suggest that maybe you all just try to keep things strictly platonic for now, at least until you figure out where you stand with this girl. Hopefully, he'll understand and be cool about it.

In the meantime, try not to let this girl's behavior get you down, bro. Don't give her the satisfaction of seeing it bother you. Just kill her with kindness when you have to interact, but otherwise, focus on your own thing. Spend time with other friends, pursue your hobbies, and be the best version of yourself.

The right girl is out there for you, man. This one is clearly not worth the drama. Keep your head up, and when the time is right, you'll find someone who appreciates you for who you are. Just gotta roll with the punches for now.

Let me know if you need any other advice on handling this situation. I got your back, dude.

[MissTrix]

Dumb girls do this basically a chance was ruined and she is mad feeling evil so she flirts with your friend.

No idea why crazy girls do this it's a hormone needy thing.

She does not like you just wants to hurt you and be bitter.

[Asker]

It's really awkward cause I can't talk to her now incase my friend is so awkward when I like her

[MissTrix]

Well just stay friends with them this does not usually last long. Though other times the girl married the friend cause she wanted to... Or got knocked up

[Asker]

I can't do anything now because it shows zero respect towards me

[MissTrix]

Then don't let her play her game move on and stay friends but don't hang out with your friend.