Would you openly flirt with someone even if you had absolutely no intention of taking it any further?

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Oncewildtwiceburned · Accepted Answer

Yes, I’m Unhappy in my current relationship, I’m a dick though, somewhere around 3/4 away into the conversation I’ll drop that I’m in a relationship.

It soothes my bitch-ass depression to flirt back sometimes. Especially if they initiated the flirting, and Especially if they are cute and they did it politely but with tact.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. I don't play games. I'm not really a flirtatious type anyways. I talk to people as I would anyone and if I like the way they think and act, I'll ask them out.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

No. I think that's just mean. I *do* however chat a guy up to put him at ease at social events then introduce him to a nice gal who seems to be a good match for him.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I have done it and I will do it again, it’s just how I am.

ShellyB · Answer

Well today age 27 yes I do this in low-key ways when nobody actually would expect anything, just as a way of being polite or sort of mutually entertaining, I am in a relationship and wearing a ring and I don’t think anybody really gets confused for more than maybe a few seconds sometimes, I have 50 ways to “randomly” mention my relationship in the first minute of a conversation.

When I was in college I often flirted because I wanted something, I was always broke and I would flirt for food, or drinks, I flirted with a couple of professors to get more help with class ie to get better grades, I flirted w a guy on my floor so he would drive me to stores since I did not have a car at the time, lots of stuff like that. I am not proud but, yes I did that.

Summeroflove · Answer

I don’t flirt intentionally no but some people do take things the wrong way so you have to be careful not to give the wrong impression or or can even awkward.

But I don’t want to unnecessarily be a ass either I just usually keep my interactions with strangers casual and brief. With people I see as only friends I’m a good friend but I’m careful because sometimes people get overly attached when you’re too good of a friend.

Anonymous · Answer

Flirting can be a fun and harmless way to interact with others, but it's important to be mindful of the other person's feelings. If you're not interested in taking things further, it's best to be clear about your intentions to avoid any misunderstandings or hurt feelings.

PrincessC16 · Answer

Yes absolutely! Just like men love to chase, I like the attention from as many males as possible.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Not deliberately.  But sometimes conversations do turn into flirting and it’s just impossible to go much further. I try my best to never create awkwardness but I don’t know if I always succeed

OneViewpoint · Answer

Of course. I do it all the time. I don’t look at flirting to be a prelude to a relationship. It’s just having fun and being playful. Enjoying the moment.

if it turns into something more, great. If it doesn’t, great. I had a fun time.

Valdemort · Answer

Yes, usually especially because there's no further intention

molonski2 · Answer

I would never really , unless it was to gain favor , build an ego without being rude , just in fun. But , I prefer people who are serious on a follow up..

TheLovelyWoman · Answer

I don’t know what is considered flirting anymore. My coworker and I went for a walk by the beach after a long day of training. Somehow he leaned in and kissed me on my lip. I was so surprised.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Back in the 80s and 90, it was considered courteous in the workplace to flirt with members of the opposite sex. It was very superficial.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I can be flirtatious with the woman that know me well enough to know how to take it but generally no I don’t flirt other than with my girl

WonderingManII · Answer

NO! I had someone do something like this to me, and it doesn't feel good knowing that the relationship can't progress. Now they are out of my life I still hurt from it. Please don't do this to another human being.

HungTexan · Answer

Sometimes it’s just fun to interact with the opposite sex in a friendly way.

Amndwu · Answer

there are many times i do it without even knowing im doing it

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yeah I have.. not that often but when I'm bored.. lol

Pupweb · Answer

I used to but there’s not point in leading people on.

thatshydork · Answer

I wouldn’t but I know a lot of people who do.

matchrestore · Answer

I'm a flirt, so... of course! Flirting is just fun!

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yea why not? It’s fun

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I'm not a man who is into flirting, i'm somewhat serious but if i want any relation with a girl, it's because i want something serious with her which leads to marriage!

MaxW1 · Answer

No because i can't imagine flirting with someone i don't romantically like

beenherebefore · Answer

I wouldn't. Never been a flirtatious person and now that I'm married even less.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Used to, it’s like symptoms of a disease men live with, but with awareness we get better at controlling it

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Only much older ladies as a compliment to them.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

I mean, there is flirting and there is  flirting ... using a bit of the former is just being friendly.

Priya99999 · Answer

Absolutely.. with my boyfriend in situations hips.. the most beautiful guy my eyes ever saw

Lokiion · Answer

I use to when I was younger but the person always knew I was just playing around

larry69 · Answer

I never flirt unless flirted with first. Not into harassment

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Not proud of it. It's for my ego, not to hurt them. It's a GREAT way to fuck things up! 0/10 don't recommend.

GODBODY954 · Answer

Yeah if I know only friends and don't want to mess up the bond we already have

Anonymous · Answer

No I wouldn't, even if I knew how to flirt. It's just not fair.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely. I’m in a serious relationship but I do occasionally try to flirt just to make sure I’m still able to attract other women.

molly_dolly885 · Answer

No, I wouldn’t feel the need to flirt w/ someone if I wasn’t going to take it further

Spiritof1776 · Answer

Absolutely not. If it isn't headed toward marriage, it shouldn't be done.

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. I would not.

Agape93 · Answer

Of course, I do it all the time

AnonAndrew · Answer

It can be fun sometimes.

Crazyced · Answer

I'd say for men practice is quite important

Eempriyanka · Answer

All that is needed  by a man is he should know how to fuck good

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No, that's just digging myself a hole.

Phoenix98 · Answer

No I don't flirt for the sake of flirting.

soe11 · Answer

No not at all.

anmari2001 · Answer

Mmmmm yes 🫢

Staximus · Answer

I have before and it's got me in trouble

Vegasrunner · Answer

Yes, it's a good way for guys to practice.

Beachbummama84 · Answer

Yes Flirting is fun!!!

msc545 · Answer

Sure, just for fun!

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Isn’t that exactly what flirting is?

Dreamclouds · Answer

uhhm no, that would be really weird

Anonymous · Answer

I really wish I would.

incompletehore · Answer

this is literally just how I flirt💀

Jeff51 · Answer

Not really

ienjoylookingatgreen · Answer

Will not

Rena90 · Answer

Not purposely.

eagle1951 · Answer

probably

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