Can the guy upgrade if he is dumped?

[Anonymous]

So if a girl dumps a guy because she can find someone better looking could the guy actually go on to find someone better looking then her

[Summeroflove]

The thing is it is these people are just passing through she will eventually discard the next man as well when he doesn’t live up to her fantasy so just remember that. Don’t be the same kind of person she is using people until you can move on to the next thing.

Don’t get me wrong nobody will ever be good enough for those certain types of people. It’s best to find someone you’re genuinely attracted to and who genuinely is attracted to you. It shouldn’t be about her and if it is about her it tells me you’re not over her as well as at risk of taking her back if she crawls back.

Grieve her and leave her in the past. Just be glad you’re not someone she married.