Should I try to reach out to a guy I liked at work who just quit?

[dnbeuajen]

There was a newer guy I was really attracted to at my job. We didn't talk a lot because we worked in separate areas, but we had a couple really good chats and I was starting to like him. He kinda just up and vanished this week and is no longer on the employee list, but Im able to access his number on the employee app. Its really rare for me to like people, so I was pretty sad about it. Should I shoot him a text? or would that be creepy? I told my other coworker about having a crush on him, and he said Id have a good shot with him. Would it be better if I asked him to text the guy I like and just have him tell the guy I like that Im interested? so it comes off as less creepy?

[Screenwriter]

It's not creepy to contact the guy and say you'd heard he quit and you were just getting to know him, so what happened?

Easy conversation starter. Then take it from there and see where it goes. You could ask him to go for coffee with you sometime.

[Shiprex]

Of course you can seek him out and it's not creepy you just didn't get an opportunity to test the water.

[bowenw]

I would say text him and explain how you got his number.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
Did you contact him?

[serious]

Well why don't you just go and introduce yourself to him, maybe after work. Even if it is formal it is fine so it won't be creepy then.

1. "Its really rare for me to like people, so I was pretty sad about it. Should I shoot him a text? or would that be creepy?"

No, it won't be creepy. I think you should text him. However, after you have introduced yourself to him you should text him.

2. "I told my other coworker about having a crush on him, and he said Id have a good shot with him. Would it be better if I asked him to text the guy I like and just have him tell the guy I like that Im interested? so it comes off as less creepy?"

Well, this method can work but I don't suggest this.

[mfused411]

Sure

[Heusus]

Ya u shud