Girls, If a shy guy made you feel seen, respected, and genuinely cared, Wouldn’t you want to be the one to say something first?

[Shy_Steve]

[Abbycado]

If he’s that shy, how is he going to show any of that?

[Shy_Steve]

He shows it in the way he looks at you, listens, remembers the little things, and treats you with respect without expecting anything in return. Not all good men come with a loud voice. Some are just waiting for someone to see past the noise.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ew no

[Shy_Steve]

I don't expect much from a girl who says ‘ew’ to basic decency anyway.

[chocolatetwopointo]

good

[Shy_Steve]

Of course it’s ‘good’.

You’d hate to accidentally give a decent guy a chance instead of your usual walking red flags.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont date

[Shy_Steve]

So you want to die alone?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes, not everyone needs to depend on someone else to be happy

[Shy_Steve]

Fair enough, But choosing isolation and convincing yourself it’s happiness aren’t always the same thing.

Humans are wired for connection, whether we admit it or not.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how is it isolating to not date?💀its js avoiding dramatic men.

not me, im not wired that way🤷‍♀️

[Shy_Steve]

I'm really Shy but I have still always seen the value with interacting with people.

When I was younger I didn't see the value in it as much and I just didn't think I'm wired that way either, But I started realising when I put myself out there more I had more enjoyable experiences.

Most Men are not dramatic, Most Men even prefer and try to avoid drama especially with Girls so I don't know where you find these Guys but trust me there is plenty of Men not like that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok good 4 u.

i won't risk getting cheated on. every single girl ik has been cheated on, so i think ill skip.

[Shy_Steve]

That's because every single Girl wants a Confident Guy and then act surprised when the same confident guy cheats. Maybe it’s not confidence that’s the problem.

It’s ignoring character.

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats exactly why i dont date.

[Shy_Steve]

Why?

[chocolatetwopointo]

bro. i dont date bc men can hide who they are for long. they can be cheaters, murderers or rapists I don't know, i dont feel like risking it🤷‍♀️

[Shy_Steve]

I get being cautious, There are bad people out there.
But judging all men by the worst of them is like refusing to eat because someone once got food poisoning.
You don’t need to risk it all, just take time to get to know the right ones.