He called me cuddly: good or bad?

[Anonymous]

We had been hugging etc. lots, just very affectionate. He later told me I was quite "cuddly." Is that good or just another way to say fat?

Good

Fat

A total of 129 votes were cast: 90 girls and 39 guys. See detailed results

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

If you were fat, you wouldn't cuddle so often.

Chances are, it was his attempt at sending you a signal, one that you obviously missed due to self confidence issues with your image.

Believe it or not, but guys are pretty damn straightforward. Not everything we say has 50 hidden messages.

[Levin]

This is quite funny actually. A perfect example of how a guy thinks he's saying something sweet to a girl, only to be bewildered with the subsequent accusatory 'are you saying I'm fat'?

[Asker]

Fair enough...

[Anonymous]

It's a good thing. Try to take what he says for what it is. Don't expect some underlying meaning, it's a waste of effort. Good luck.

[blufrenzy93]

Cuddly is good. It's especially good when your guy likes to cuddle.

[Cupcakecutie0]

Learn to take a compliment and not to over think everything. It will save you a lot of headaches in the future.

[Asker]

I thought it was good... But then I guess I over thought it. Thanks for reassuring me :P

[Ezmotts]

Wow, really? Don't overanalyze it, just take the compliment.

[Asker]

This probably sounds stupid... but how's it a compliment?

[liquidsoap]

i have no idea. how much do you weigh?

[Asker]

118...?

[liquidsoap]

and how tall are you?

[hellgirl1]

Definitely a compliment.

[Anonymous]

it's good. he likes being close to you

[SnackG]

Good. Also do what Cupcakecutie0 said.

[InMyHeart]

good.