He was so comfortable around me?

[Anonymous]

My coworker took his pants off to show me a bruise on his inner thigh.

Was he too comfortable with me to. do that or he just didn't care?

[Anonymous]

It is not appropriate for a coworker to take their pants off at work, and this behavior could be considered unprofessional and potentially even harassment, depending on the context and the nature of your relationship with this coworker. It's important to set clear boundaries and to communicate your discomfort with any behavior that makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe in the workplace.

It's possible that this coworker may have felt comfortable around you, but that does not excuse inappropriate behavior. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and to make choices that align with your values and boundaries. If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe around this coworker, it may be necessary to report the behavior to a supervisor or HR representative, or to distance yourself from the coworker as much as possible.

Remember that you have the right to a safe and respectful work environment, and it's important to advocate for your own well-being and to hold others accountable for their behavior.

[spartan55]

That's really fucking weird for him to do that. This was at work?

[Asker]

Yes, it was... but it was just the two of us.

[spartan55]

Doesn't matter. So wrong on so many levels. But of course, you are concerned about his comfort level which should be the last thing you worry about.

[Anonymous]

You let him comfortable doing this in front of you sweetheart...😘

[SnowedIn]

That's wrong on so many levels.