Should I feed this man?

[Anonymous]

We all know tomorrow is Thanksgiving.

We all know that they say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

I have this new-ish coworker we've worked together 6ish months. We've talked a little bit here and there I flirted with him a little bit here and there.

I happen to be off tomorrow and cooking a full feast as I type. I'm wondering would it be weird to pop up in our workplace and bring him a plate Thanksgiving?

I find him and simply tell him "Couldn't let you work Thanksgiving without some real food" and dip out, maybe write my number on the box.

I'm just wondering if it will some off as bold, flirty, and sweet. Or weird and stalker-esque.

I do know he works tomorrow but that's because it's a Thursday and his position almost always require he work Thursday and Sunday. Also, our boss (same location different departments) happened to mention he's working (he volunteered).

Fully aware that it says that I am in my 30's. But when it comes to men/dating I'm a little inexperienced per se. Also probably a little autistic, who knows.

Kind, honest answers please.

Updates

20 d

Welp guys. I tried. I put on something nice but casual. Fixed him up a nice plate. Went to work. LADIES AND GENTLEMEN he went home early!!!

Back to the drawing board I guess.

So I'm definitely open to suggestions. But I'm leaning towards just going up to him and asking him to a movie.

[Chazmatazz269]

If you want him to fall in love, do exactly that.
If you tend to sketch out over clingy dudes, balance the delivery with something else. Feed someone else, but make sure he gets a special dessert or something. Your number is a good move, but in my experience most guys don’t have women who cook for them as “friends”. There’s only one way to interpret that with limited experience.
There is love in sharing food, and more in sharing homemade food. Even the most “evolved” liberal men will sense that.

[Asker]

I'm early shift (off by noon) so there won't be anyone I know (or at least anyone worth feeding) at that time of day.
I definitely overthink things. So I'm worried he might be like "how'd she know I'd be here?" Or "I don't know her like that."

[Chazmatazz269]

I suspect that you walk a tenuous line frequently enough that this isn’t new for you.
If you want him to feel targeted, stop in just for him. If you want him to consider and reconsider his place with you, share the love.
I honestly don’t know what i would do in your situation.
This isn’t a situation most men have to deal with.

[Asker]

A tenuous line? What line would that be?
You also said most men don't have to deal with this situation. A woman attempting to pursue them?

[Summeroflove]

I’m a little late. But that would be really sweet see how he reacts and if he reacts well…. Take a direct approach.

[jamesgoldman]

Absolutely, maybe check allergies with the boss just to be safe

[Asker]

So, I definitely won't be checking with our boss. I'd literally just be bringing a plate for just him. The fewer people in the work place who know the better.

[bowenw]

Do it if you haven't already. Let us/me know if you did and how he reacted.

[Anonymous]

If you want to advance your potential relationship, yes.

[Staximus]

You will score some major points