How to tell if a girls flirting with me and how to make a move cause I have Asperger’s syndrome / autism I’m horrible at social cues?

[chase_strickland800]

[jahaims]

I'm autistic and struggled with this as well while maturing. Tbh it takes practice and experience as well as putting in the extra effort to pay attention for cues your brain doesn't naturally pick up on. Basically you can train yourself. It is harder at your age because most people suck at communicating so it ends up being awkward flirting etc. Someone would have to be really flirting with me back in the day for me to pick up on it. Make sure you are just blinded by social cues and not from the lack of self worth.

[chase_strickland800]

Thanks bro

[jahaims]

You can dm me with related/autism questions if you want. I've been married for over 10 years and have two kids. I would assume I could give useful advice based on my life experience if you need advice.

[chase_strickland800]

I can’t dm you yet I’m not on that xper level I’ll follow you and you just dm me

[capriVib]

Even normal men find this hard to grasp tough for anyone, especially with Asperger’s. Try cold approaching random girls. Be direct. Get feedback. Don't quit.

[chase_strickland800]

Thank you so much

[Abbycado]

That is super hard because girls flirt different ways, just as much as guys do. So girl A and girl B might have completely different approaches. There is no one answer or cue to look for.

[chase_strickland800]

Thanks for the feedback ok there all different got it

[Abbycado]

Sure thing. While you may not pick up on every cue, I am sure you will on some. Good luck.

[Nikki1989]

We are almost never flirting. It is just that most men think even a general look in their direction means something.

[KostasKouvalis]

I have it too, and the simple answer is, she most likely ISN'T. If you're not sure, ask someone who doesn't have autism/aspergers

[chase_strickland800]

Thanks bro