How do I talk to a goth girl I like and get her number?

[Anonymous]

Well let's just say I am pushing it out of my league, and I want to get her number.
And how to start a conversation with someone like that,

[emeraldsaphire]

I use to be an emo girl, still kinda am, and one of the biggest things that turned me off was when I was reduced to my aesthetic and being a girl.

Before you go forward ask yourself if you and this women have anything in common. Like are you goth too? Do you have the same hobbies? You need an in. You can't just go up to someone and be like "hi you are my fetish and lets go out" Also how do you know her? Does she work at your company or go to the same college? Or did you just see her on facebook. If you don't have any similar interests or have natural proximity to her I'd just move on. Even if you got her number it probably wouldn't go anywhere.

Assuming you have some touch points go with that. Engage with her on the things she likes to do. Let things naturally build from their. Then she'll want to give you her number. Otherwise she'll just give you the rick roll phone number

[beenherebefore]

'Someone like that' she's a person just like any other girl. Approach her as if you were to approach any other women. Do you really like her or you're just fetishizing?

[Asker]

Both?
I don't know, she is pretty beautiful even without that style.
And I don't really approach anyone, I don't know in general how to approach.
All I can say Is hii how are you?
And after that I am pretty much an awkward person.
Because I panic 🫪.
I am confident at first going and saying that but don't know how to get till the next part!!!

Oh if she makes any faces while eating or drinking something I can make a comment like its not that good is it and then pick up the conversation and introduce myself. And actually getting somewhere (mostly till insta)
But never the number

[DonaldDarko]

If you like goth girls you're probably goth adjacent in some way. Just let your inner warlock come out. An occult necklace or clothes that hint at goth. That's her thing at least in the current moment. If you don't have any goth leanings then it must be something about her personality that's got you interested. Just talk to her. She's probably not as out of your league as you think.

[Asker]

Oh she is cause I say hi and mostly I get ignored or just plain dry conversation.
Which doesn't work.
I have tried multiple times with other women.
But somehow it's always like that.

[DonaldDarko]

That's probably because your just not her type. If you had whatever look she's into she'd be more interested probably. Girls i wouldn't pay any attention to if they got a pixie cut I probably would notice them at least. She's probably like that. With sex its usually something meaningless. There are probably certain men she likes, a certain look or personality that gets her interested. Notice what kind of guys she goes out with. Maybe she likes long haired artist types. Or maybe it's military types. If you can affect a certain persona without her noticing what you're up to she might notice. Now she'll be getting access to that marine or nerd or surfer dude or what ever it is. Most people have something they want and usually it's not easy to get.

[Asker]

Make sense, how do I get from here to there without messing up my own persona.

[DonaldDarko]

Just pay attention to the men she likes and be a good enough psychologist to find the common thread. What men does she hang arround? Which ones make her turn her head? Who does she date or what is her ex like. Put the pieces together. What is the common thread between those men? The goth thing is something to go on anyway. Do her boyfriends have some aspect of that or if not it might be something else. My guess is she's probably into guys that are a little occult or have some of that flavor. Artsy or spiritual in some way. Guys with zodiac rings or necklaces with pagan symbols. Maybe nothing obvious like they look like Alester Crowley but some kind of hint of that. Maybe not but it's a clue. It's some place to start.

[NathanDavis]

drop that weird fascination with "goth people"

that would be a great first step...

[Asker]

Lol yes 😂
I would but she was too attractive

[CriminallyInsane]

"Goth" isn't a language so you ask the same way you would ask for any other girl's number, although I don't like your chances...

[Nikki1989]

Your first mistake is thinking "leagues" are actually a thing.

[Asker]

So tell me this,
If a skinny guy, who is not dressed well, who is unattractive tries to talk to you, also he is Asian and nerdy.
What will you do?
Simple answer you ignore.

[arianna1414]

giver her your number and say a compliment to her that way no pressure for her

[In_Trance]

The same way you would talk to any other person on this planet

[Asker]

I can't that's the thing😂

[DryGermanGuy]

Dress up as Death himself. ☠️

[Anonymous]

Why is she out of your league

[Asker]

I am ugly shorter then her (I like taller or equal height )

[Opinion Owner]

How do u look and her?

[Asker]

If I can tell you in a simplest way, I look like Raj + Leonard.
And she looks like Raj's emo girlfriend + penny mixed.
But completely in goth dress. Whole black 🖤.
Tbh I am not going to see her again it was an exam setting

[Anonymous]

Don't, talking to women is how go to jail

[Asker]

Ah us buddy...
But need to so that I can go out on dates...

[Opinion Owner]

Better to be alone these days

[Asker]

Ya, I haven't got anything in my life other then career and money, I need just one experience of love, sex physical affection, in any way.
I have been deprived of it.
And I need to just once so that I can be alone. And happy maybe.

[Opinion Owner]

Money solves my issues

[Asker]

It didn't for me.

[oldman26]

Lick your eyebrow

[Asker]

Lol yesss

[karlaatsd]

You like goths?