Should I make the first move on my flirting coworker or wait for him?

[Anonymous]

if i am into a guy and neither of us has made the first move except matching on tinder and we’re coworkers but then he messaged me on there and i replied then he unmatched but then i followed him on instagram and he followed me back and he still flirts w me at work what can i do to make a move? or should he

[WellBye]

I doubt he's actually flirting with you. It feels more like you're making up scenarios just because he followed you on social media.

[DecentMan]

Go talk to him simple as that and be open and genuine - there’s no need to flirt as such because if he’s interested it will be clear and he will naturally initiate a date or you will feel a time to do the same.

[bowenw]

Try something relatively innocent, like asking him out for lunch or coffee and see what happens.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[jazzy34]

If that happened, leave it alone. You don't want to make things awkward at work.

[karley55]

He unmatched you? Hell no! He just likes your attention

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

You don't have to wait for anything, that is, if you listen to 2026's Western Edition Remix

[In_Trance]

Don't fuck your coworkers. It never works out the way you think it will

[DryGermanGuy]

Leave that poor guy alone.

[Asker]

the hell? he’s the one who’s been flirting w me and pursuing me for the last 6 months

[DryGermanGuy]

You mistake his friendliness for flirting. This is all in your head.

[queenofcardio]

You can make the first move

[Anonymous]

Don’t date coworkers.

[Asker]

haha don’t tell me what to do i will date coworkers if i want to what’s ur issue

[Anonymous]

You should do it.

[Caurav1997]

Go ahead make sure you give best blowjob

[MrChinaski]

Gawd...