What’s your biggest weakness when you’re attracted to someone?

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DishLady · Accepted Answer

There's one guy who, whenever we're in the same room we can FEEL each other -- like a massive magnetic pull. However I know that letting him approach me will always lead to disaster. So I now look for opportunities to walk away or turn my attention to someone else. I know that at some point he will hover. I know that in all event pics he will be right at my elbow even if I was originally across the room. He wants something from me and I don't know wtf it is, but I'm not giving hi many more attention. That's the STRONGEST connection I've ever felt to anyone ever in my life.

Top 10 strongest... a few guys here on G@G and a few people here in my life. We laugh and grumble about the same things, so there's a natural appeal to hearing from them on a regular basis. It's... mental home if that makes sense. It's friendship, but it's based on strong attraction of our personalities and values.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humour, honesty and integrity, good communication skills, and shared interests and values. Click these very basic boxes, and I will be attracted. Sadly there are still many men who think it is all about money and a big dick. Pathetic, I know.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I guess it's that I come on too strong. When I'm attracted to someone, I want to talk to them a ton and want to be in their space often. I still love my space and need it most days at least for a few hours each day. But I feel like it can definitely be a turn off for the person I'm attracted to sometimes. I ask them every little thing about themselves. And the more I find out we have in common or just things I like about them, the more I feel like I'm attracted to them. It happened twice in my life where it turned the girl off because I think they got creeped out by me wanting to be in their space so often. But obviously if they make that boundary and make it clear they're not interested, I leave them alone. I ain't a stalker 😂

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Sometimes I get overanxious and do stupid things, like Stuart in The Big Bang Theory when he sees Penny and Leonard have broken up, and says "I love you." 😎

ohsheeT · Answer

Her eyes her energy her touch her smile everything about her really

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Probably that I get a little too soft lol If I really like someone, I’ll give them way more patience and benefit of the doubt than I probably should… And then of course I start overthinking every little thing too lol.

convo_king89 · Answer

I am not sure if this counts, but if I like someone as in their personality one thing that is my weakness is she wearing a pair of regular panties. I've always found it cute and a turn on, just to see her briefs show in the back or she got some panty lines I get turned on.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you want my bank account numbers to? F*** no i'm telling you that.😆

Suffice it to say when you like someone you want to trust them. So you have to fight the urge until she's proven herself trustworthy.

queenofcardio · Answer

Having similar tastes in humor and interests. A man who can match my energy makes me so weak.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Now, none but in my 20's I was not sure of myself on how mess up. Now, I don't give af. We click or we don't and I don't care how good she looks neither.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Maybe the fact that I can’t hide it very well… If I like someone it will be fairly easy to tell. And that’s because I used to be the complete opposite of that and it got me nowhere

DarKnight36 · Answer

I used to compliment women a lot, but it doesn't matter anymore :)

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

I suppose sort of blushing when they make prolonged eye contact with me.

Anonymous · Answer

Back in the day it was approaching and that was before they made it illegal and I left the game

loveslongnails · Answer

I can't think of just one thing, but kindness is high on the list.

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

No weaknesses now... Used to when i was younger, i was very shy!

msc545 · Answer

My tendency to overlook their faults, at least in the past. I no longer do this.

Erica8 · Answer

Trying to break the ice with them. It’s probably self-sabotage.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

My biggest weakness is a beautiful woman with a great personality that isn't afraid to talk to me

AngryCarl3 · Answer

I have an unfortunate tendency to simp.

Paige2006 · Answer

Getting too close too fast

MrChinaski · Answer

I value people too highly for my own good.

exitseven · Answer

I am afraid to make a move.

Anonymous · Answer

Apparently anxiety.

robocop666 · Answer

I will overlook that their a horrible person

Dullie · Answer

I can get a little obsessed 😂

The_Wolf_2002 · Answer

Her sarcastic smile...

fish5505_87 · Answer

Talking too much.

RepleteAura · Answer

Personality + looks

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