When a girl rejects me, I usually stay calm and say things like:
"Ok"
"Suit yourself"
"Mhm"
"No prob"
Or I will just go silent. I NEVER apologize. My intentions were clear, and I was direct about it. So why apologize for my intentions? That's like saying 'oops I shouldn't be going for someone I want'.
You tried in the least. So you just took a step closer to dating girls. The choice is yours on whether or not you want to keep in touch with her or not.
If you do keep in touch, she's only a FRIEND and nothing more. So don't 'want' her.
If you don't keep in touch, then that's OK too. Other girls will cross your path.
But my piece of advice to give you is this: if I'm interested in a girl for a possible relationship, she starts in my friend zone. I don't date her right off the bat. I find out more about her, get to know her background, and see if I feel chemistry/connection with her. Then I'll make moves to seduce her into a relationship.
Many girls have come my way, and I've ended up pitching them to the curb. I lost interest in them after 2-3 hangouts because I couldn't handle some of their issues.
When I DO have a steady girlfriend, THEN I'll take her out on dates. Only after it's official.
Sometimes it's best to forgive yourself and move on (cross between forgetting it happened and ceasing any continued pursuit of this women).. Doing so will help her from any awkward feelings in the future, and will help you grow (even unknowingly) by understanding what "not to do" for next time.
And additionally, I'm sure she didn't take it personally.
~ ArtistBBoy
Don't bother apologizing.
Try to go on as if it didn't happen. If you bring it up or keep hinting a lot that you're interested, she'll probably stop talking to you pretty fast. Hopefully you guys can keep on keepin' on, and you can build up your friendship and maybe try again later when you've gotten to know each other a lot better.
I never heard about that theory before. She rejects you then you apologize?! Well, you should ignore her. That's it.
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LMFAO I'm sorry bro but this post is too funny. Never in a million years...scratch that...a trillion years apologize to a girl because she rejected you!
That's like trying to apologize to someone that punched you in the face...doesn't make much sense.
You can be friends with her if you like. If you can control your emotions. Otherwise forget her and keep it movin.
No, you don't need to apologize. Just forget it happened.
My response after getting shut down has always been "fair enough", and walk away.
Never apologize to women, you don't apologize to your dog do you?
The last two suggestions you made.
no dnt do that
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