Best way to give out your number?

[Anonymous]

Guys, what would be the best way for a girl to give you her number at a party?

Ask the guy if he wants your number then give it to him

Slip him a piece of paper and say text me if you want

Ask if you can see his phone and put your number in it

Other...please state

Answer for girls

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+1 y

thanks for all the great answers!

[AustinMan]

Don't give it to him until he asks for it as a general rule. I know that customs are changing and women are becoming more aggressive socially but I believe that's largely a transient phenomenon. Human nature hasn't changed in a significant way in hundreds of thousands of years and isn't likely to change anytime soon. Men are raised to be the sexual aggressors and while some of the guys your age are okay with being pursued, many are not. If you encounter a situation where you think it's really important, write it down on a piece of paper and discreetly get it in his hands.

[kheserthorpe]

Some of the guys her age are also painfully shy.

[MrEM4N]

You can also say something like "So are you going to ask for my number or are you going to keep pretending you're not interested?". Confidence and swag all in one. Chick told me that once and I felt like a fool for not asking sooner.

[rachel05]

haha that's hilarious

[MrEM4N]

Yessssss

[SkinnyG]

Luv it!

[MrEM4N]

Also, it's important not to ask him if he wants things or to text you if he feels like it. You need to act like he's already interested in you and speak the part. After he gives you his number if you want to take it a step further you can go "So what time are you picking me up?" These kinds of questions are so refreshing and it's really attractive when I see a woman taking initiative.

[Anonymous]

I once wrote my number in magic marker on a guy's hand while he was asleep. He was impressed. It didn't work out between us (not that compatible), but it was a good approach in that situation. He asked me out the next day. That being said, doing that to some random guy probably won't work. We had been flirting the entire night at a party and I had to leave before he woke up.

[Stilover]

I once put my name and number on a piece of paper, and one day when I was on the bus I walked by this guy who I thought was super cute who I had seen a lot, so when I walked pass him I bent down pretending to pick up a paper and said "hey I think you dropped this" with in 10 min he texted me, we ended up dating for almost a year

[hakuna_matata]

haha... the guy I fell in love with was so shy... but I wanted him to ask my number first... so I kept on taking to him about my cell phone... my balance.. and finally in the middle of the conversation he asked my number... lol... I almost bullied him into asking my number

[Anonymous]

"I'm guessing you have to get your mom's permission first before you ask me out, so here, take this, check with mommy, and call me."

[rockingpianoman]

haha , yeah that's cool :D

[rachel05]

lmao

[Lovelesspassion]

I know one girl who said she has a really cool ringtone I should call her phone to here it.. I fell for it.. I asked for her number so I could call it to hear it..

Not only did I have her number.. She had mine..

[rockingpianoman]

the more you can catch his attention the better , like this anonymous user gave an example ;D

don't overdo it though , don't be super freaky :p

from your option I chose B as best option

[RiverWells]

Okay so this cute guy that I sat with at lunch was walking next to me and asked "Hey you got some Coco Butter?" And I was like "No sorry." and he was like "Oh well you got some hand lotion?" And once again I said "No sorry. BUT I can give you my number?" AND HE SAID OKAY I DIDN'T EXPECT IT TO PLAY OUT SO FREAKING SMOOTHLY LIKE WHAT THE ACTUAL F*** THAT WAS AWESOME!!!

[islands7]

Get him interested enough to ask on his own; you don't want to begin a spoon-feeding relationship

Once asked, you can decide whether to give out your correct number or not.

[brendaban]

a guy who looked anxious asked me if he can used my phone one day in library because he said he could not find his,he dailed his number and his phone rang.so he had my number

[YouKnowThatGuy]

Having her see my phone, making an excuse to get her hands on it, then putting her number in it would actually make me smile a bit so I went with C

[longrodvonhugendong]

C because you get to make a cute nickname that he'll see every time you text/call him or he texts/calls you.

[Suemac]

I wait until he asks since I am always sick of putting all the effort into things.

[jacquesvol]

"Can I have your phone # ? "

"It's in the phone book"

"Then I need your name and address "

"They're in the phone book too."

[CindiluvsFriends]

I usually just ask if they want my number. I get tired of waiting for them to ask.

[purenature]

Using an introduction card similar to a business card.

[purenature]

with your tongue mate.

[different4eva]

i would what till he asks for it