You are a girl and you have to give more indicators of interest. Girls that act like they are in a relationship don't go small talking that much, they don't flirt, they don't kino, they don't act atractive, nor bring out topics sayn out loud I am single.
U really think its the looks on its own that make guys confident to go talk to girls, especially girls with good looks. Going in bars trying to flirt with random hot chicks can get a boyfriend or his friends act protective, and most guys with brains don't get involved in these states of confusion.
So let people know you are single, not a slut. Then let me know how it turned out.
(1) be more flirty, (2) let guys know you are available, AND (3) don't be afraid to say stuff like "what are you doing this weekend?", or even ask them out yourselves.
Also don't get offended if a friend invites you out because another friend is interested. Sometimes when I have only met a girl once briefly, I would deem it creepy to just call and ask her out, BUT if I ask a friend (girl or guy) who knows her a bit better to bring her out with us one night, I can use that opportunity to get to know her better and then maybe ask her out.
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haha. it seems like you just attract shy guys. its as simple as that. perhaps some of the guys think, hell, she would never date me. or some of them are shy for some reason... who knows.
Well I'm a guy that's a bit shy at 1st. I would say possibly a confidense issue, feeling like you're out of their league. That used to tend to happen to me a lot when I was looking...
why don't you ask a guy out for once? why is it the masculine, manly thing to do for the guy to initiate?
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