I want our next conversation to get under her skin, suggestions?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this girl for a few months now, then she starts lying to me, ignoring me, and finally I find out that she's been seeing some other guy behind my back. We haven't really talked to each other for a few days, but I know that we will meet up somewhere during the weekend. I don't want to be mean or nasty, but when I see her I want to look right in her eyes and set her straight. She's a spoiled and very pretty girl who hasn't had to work hard for anything... so she thinks that she can just do whatever she wants with guys. My guess is that she's never been told off before and I want my words to shake her up a bit. Something simple, to the point, and classy is what I'm looking for. I really want to say something that will get under her skin and make her think about what she's been doing with guys.

[vmw2008]

The best way to get under her skin? Seem totally over it. Think about how you would act with a girl who you just simply had no interest in. You would probably act polite, nonchalant, and most of all you wouldn't feel the need to explain anything in detail or put her down.

A guy messed me around once as well. At the next party he tried hard to flirt and act like we were cool. I was very polite and smiled but didn't give him any special attention or flirt back. I didn't act mad at all, but he noticed that I just seemed genuinely uninterested in him romantically. Finally, he pushed harder and either tried to suggest hanging out again or tried to bring up something romantic between us. I looked him in the eyes with my best "I'm so sorry" face I could muster and said, "Listen...no offense, but you're just not the kind of guy I thought you were. Friends?" He looked like I'd just kicked him in the balls.

I don't know if you should phrase it like that exactly, and I don't know if a girl would handle that as gracefully, but my advice would just be to act like you couldn't give a sh*t until she starts trying to get with you again. Then throw something simple like that at her.

[Stacyzee]

I don't really think there's much you can say. When someone is set in their ways its hard to break them out of things. Just let her know in your most aggressive tone that what she did wasn't right (No cursing, no yelling,) just lett her know straight forward what she did and the type of person she is. Do not have a discussion with her, just say your piece then walk out on her. No longer continue to answer for her calls or acknowledge her existence. (She's used to screwing guys over and having them run back to her). Walk out! Leave her. She isn't worth anymore of your time.

[Asker]

This was actually more or less exactly what I was planning on doing.

[Stacyzee]

Good :) then go for it!

[tiannamundy]

Question: are you sure she's lying? Make sure you really know.

Also, if you really are sure, I think the best way is to simply ask her. And ask her why. Get a reason out of her, why would she lie? For liars, the best way to get under their skin is to show them that you know the truth and that you want to hear it from them.

[thetheme]

Don't talk to her at all. If you really want to get under her skin, then STOP communicating with her. Go out and date other girls asap. Creating drama will still boost her ego and puts her on a pedestal because it shows that you care. FYI, there are many girls that will do this so it's best that you have girls lined up.

[Anonymous]

Yes, best is to ignore her and focus on someone else. When (if) she comes back begging just tell her "no thanks".

[vishna]

"What you did is wrong and it sucks that you are too much of a coward to be honest, goodbye"

"I would never have done what you did and can't believe someone like you could do that to me"

[MrFlirtatious1992]

F*** that bitch. Give her the silent treatment. I've been in the same situation. Don't give her anything. Seriously.

[YourBruise]

One day she will get hurt the way she has hurt you. Whether it opens her eyes to the wrong she has done to other guys is another matter.

[gemglam]

Tell her if she continues doing that to guys, karma is going to get her