If he looks over his shoulder at me?

[Anonymous]

Sometime my crush will look over his shoulder to look at me some mornings when he comes into work. Does this mean anything? He catches glances at me all day but the fact he goes out of his way to look over his shoulder at me? am I reading too much into this?

[DishLady]

You're eye candy and a guy is not likely to starve himself of that small pleasure. To him it's not really going out of his way.

If he comes over to chat with you, that's a different thing.

Don't overanalyze.

[Asker]

yeah he comes to chat with me quite a bit.

[DishLady]

So then overanalyze, lol.

What type of convos is he starting? Has he asked you to have lunch with him, or is he keeping things "strictly in the office"? The one who sticks to the basic inter-cubicle flirting isn't serious. Like I said, you could just be major eye candy to him. The one who wants to take you "off-site" is more likely trying to get you to think of him beyond the cubicle walls...

[0202vogue]

I think he is interested, probably finds you attractive and wants to see if you are checking him out as he walks past.