Guys, if you had a huge crush on a girl, would you still go clubbing?

[itawtitawapuddytat]

This guy has a huge crush on me and I have a huge crush on me too. The signs are beyond obvious and I know that he likes me. The thing is, we've never spoken to each other and we hardly know each other. I feel as though we are both trying to muster up the courage to speak to each other.

My question is, if you had a crush on a girl, would you go clubbing to hook up/pick up other girls?

My crush goes clubbing occassionally and of course it is to get with girls.

I know it's not like we're in a relationship or committed to each other really.. but it hurts to think that he would go out and make out with girls.

Obviously I know that the girls he hooks up with are nothing more than just hook ups... but still? what do you guys think?

do you think he's a bad guy? now I feel really stupid for thinking that he could possibly like me.

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+1 y

lol *crush on HIM too

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+1 y

I think he actually has a crush on me and is intimidated.

we're like two different people - he's confident and outgoing, no trouble getting girls.

BUT, he thinks I'm really smart and I'm into leadership, volunteering and doing stuff - completely different from the girls he usually associates with

[Kabloosh]

Are you sure he has a crush or just finds you attractive enough that he wouldn't mind hooking up with you like other girls? I don't see why he would be hooking up with other girls if all it takes is a small crush for him to become too intimidated to ask you out.

But no. A crush would not make me settle down and not do anything. It would more likely make me pursue the one I have a crush on instead of chasing after other women.

I think he sounds like potential trouble though. This is a question you should be asking if you are in an actual relationship with him. Since you are not he is free to do as he pleases.

[Anonymous]

If I have a crush on a girl, I will still go out and look for other girls, until she is willing to make a commitment to me. I am not going to put my life on hold hoping that somehow things will work out. I have played that waiting game before, and will not make that mistake again.

[dommage]

yes, I think girls and guys do that, if its not a commited relationship then why close yourself

[lauramor]

I don't think he is a bad guy, he's just not closing himself to other opportunities

[Anonymous]

I would still go clubbing since I can get pleasure.