The idea of 'people when drunk show their true intentions / colors' is a myth :) However, when drunk people become less inhibited and more stupid with less control on themselves for sure. In short they at times can't control their will and actions and THAT is what exactly occurred here
Incidentally a few months ago one of my friends (woman) faced the same situation with one of her friend's husbands where he blatantly touched her ass and felt her up in full view of everyone. Ofcourse everyone played it down later. NOW this guy has always known to be a very decent cultured gentleman who is well educated, courteous, loves his daughters to bits (THAT I will vouch for) and is the CEO of an organization. BUT this happened.
Hence, after getting intoxicated control on one's senses is very limited even for those who can hold their drink (or whatever).
Now this friend who he touched inappropriately is quite a looker, free and open minded person, wears good and fashionable clothes (shows a bit of skin too most times) and is seen as flirtatious by nature though I'm positive she doesn't mean it that way.
On a normal given day everyone is what they are but when intoxicated what happened stands a good chance of happening and it did :)
In your case however, the possibilities may be
1. They (ur friend and his wife) may be 'behind the curtain' swingers
2. They may have discussed having a MFF with you in mind earlier and he was just trying his luck out then
3. The most likely possibility however is he lost control of himself after a couple of drinks (or more) and he couldn't control what he was upto (as it happened to my friend)
Apologies, this may have been too long to read :)
P.S. 'rubbing your foot' is a mild way to see how you react cause if you create a scene or discuss it, this can be downplayed as a 'playful' antic
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Yes, it looks as though he was flirting with you. People lose their inhibitions after drinking because alcohol changes brain chemistry. We tend to feel like we can get away with more risky behavior, like the kind you saw in this married man.
Everyone there is having a good time, drinking, partying, and things tend to pass unnoticed by the group. Since the guests are married, there are things they can do that make you go, "There's no way that actually happened; he's married, and I'm imagining things. Or am I?"
I'd say there's meaning behind his behavior, and it's up to you whether you want to explore it. If you and your husband have ever considered swinging... that's definitely an opportunity knocking on your door.
How exactly was he rubbing your foot? Did you notice his wife's reactions? What about his behavior towards you have you noticed before?
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First, he was probably just horny - maybe his wife isn't taking care of things at home :)
Second, you let him rub your foot right in front of your husband and his wife. That's egging him on !
I get the idea that you were enjoying the flirtation - maybe even "thought about it" later that night. And other times when you were in bed or in the bath?Well he probably thinks that your hot and he likes what he sees. I agree I think he likes you more then a friend.He was really flirting with you.When he did this in front of his wife rubbing your feet how did she looked?And act? Sometimes drinking brings out people's inner inhibitions.sometimes it makes peopel be loose and feel free.So how did the rubbing of you feet happen?Did he just grab them randomly and started massaging them?I think he really likes you.
I don't know if it is true feelings just he doesn't care to control himself.
Like take my dad for instance he cheated on my mom almost every time he drank, was it cuz he liked these ladies? No, he might of thought they were attractive but many he didn't even like, he slept with women because he could but he would never do it sober.it all depends what kind of vibe a woman gives a man. may be you haven't given anything like that and he just felt that you give such vibes. may be you are too open to him than rest of your married male friends. may be he knows something about u, past or present even if that wasn't true. or you are simply beautiful than his wife.
Being drunk is not an excuse. Sure alchole makes you intoxicated and judgment poor however one still has control of actions regardless. You didn't do anything wrong, he was just a d-bag to say the least. At my dad and step-moms wedding my uncle (not anymore) when he was married to my aunt, he flirted with a member of my step-moms side. Years later they split. Yea for a reason too.
Sound snore like he was trying to have a couples swap! His wife might or might not like it.
Was his wife talking more with your husband?
We couples swap but we are open about it not hidding it with tease flirts or guessing games.
Those hurt a relationship! Bring out secrets and jealousy! It's more just sex and fun for both sides!
He probably does like you sexually but don’t encourage him. He’s married and he probably doesn’t like you for real.
Since I never met him, I can only assume. If people are drunk, they say and do a lot of stupid sh*t. Why don't you just ask one of your mutual friend if he/she could find out what's going on?
Maybe they have an open marriage and they both want you.
What comes out when a male is drunk? True intentions . . . (I'm afraid not.) it's true stupidity.
Seems he is flirting so must have some internal interest in you. But that sounds tame and that he kept it under control.
Not their true intentions. Other intentions. Ones they didn't have before. Their inhibitions leave them - they don't 'gain' anything but intoxication.
Yu sure he was drunk? Did his wife notice what he was doing? And what was your reaction?
his wife has probably stopped performing oral sex, and he's hoping you will. happens all the time
yes and no it duch courage talking, of what they mit want or do
I think drunken words are sober thoughts.
That’s been happening since booze was invented
I would say its like somewhat true intentions.
get away from him
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