Is it wise to make a bold move on my crush? Or should I just forget about it?

[dalila19]

I have this massive crush on a guy, and I think he likes me too but he seems scared of me, this frustrates me a lot we used to be friends he cares a lot for me and he told me I'm really beautiful but now it's really awkward and tense between us, especially when we are alone. Everyone think he likes me and he know I like him but he doesn't make a move,

should I do it for him, this has been dragging for too long, should I make a bold move like kiss him or something?

[fairtrade]

Girl, with a face like yours, I don't think you have anything to worry about. That guy is probably sh*tting bricks every time he even thinks about making a move.

I don't think you have to take on the role of a guy or even make a "bold" move though. I mean, it sounds like all you want is to have the ball rolling with this guy. Right now, you guys are stuck in this awkward patch of ice. More importantly, there's all this "I know, he knows, I know he knows, he knows I know" bullsh*t going on.

Someone needs to clear the air. I think the only thing you should do is just walk up to him and tell him, "look, can we talk for a moment? I have something to tell you. I like you. Not as a friend. I like how you look. You look cute. I have feelings for you. I like you - as in more than just a friend. What's driving me nuts though, is that you haven't told me or showed me how you feel about me. I just want to know, do you feel the same way?"

Great! Finally! Things can stop being awkward between us. This is a smiles and affectionate event. After full disclosure of where everyone stands on this issue, he's going to feel comfortable enough touching you or going further. If not, just hug him and touch his arm or hold his hand and smile. Let him understand that he has the "green light" to touch you. He's not going to "offend you" if he touches you.

Some guys need more of a push than others. But you definitely should feel nervous about him not being interested in you. I mean, I hope you know that you look great. If you have any doubts at all, or for a little bit of extra confidence walking into that situation, spend some extra time to do your eye make-up lol.

Best of luck!

[Cantremember]

Bold moves rarely work. Try seducing him. Everyone likes being seduced. (Instead of having something "bold" dropped in their lap)

[Bulldogs33]

Yes! Go for it! What's the worst that can happen honestly? He probably likes you and guys love it when the girl makes the first move

[Anonymous]

well just ask him out and he might say yes.

[Anonymous]

maybe just ask him out

[Anonymous]

yes, you ar egorgeous he won't say no.

[Anonymous]

No it's not bold, go for it

[Anonymous]

yes go for it